CocoaBean

Not trying to be rude... And I have my story too, but lets keep this thread to what it is about. Real stories of people getting back together!

I have been reading a lot of this thread. It really does seem like this thread should NOt be in the "getting back together" area, but rather healing, or moving on. I can see no contact or LC for about 2 weeks to keep from begging/pleading. But after that LC for a while should be used. It is true, you will be somewhat uncomfortable, it will hurt. How much you are willing to sacrifice is up to you. I told Will that I want to fight for him. And you know what- I will!!! I don't have to beg and plead to do that. We work together quite intricately and I have been keeping the conversations to work, and steering him away from personal. We split up our pets when I moved out and he tries to talk about them, I steer the conversation away. He is hurting too. He needs a friend. I want to fight for him, I have made mistakes and I believe that by being by his side and supporting him that I can show him that I have changed, and realized my mistakes. I can also grow in doing this. I love him so much and long for reconciliation, but I am NOT ready to give up. I had been reading this thread for advice and support, and I find that most here are looking to give up on getting back together, and I feel that this thread is in under the WRONG title!!! You can find what I am going through under "my story" if you want to read.