Shimi

I know someone who is the same way, absolutely no sex drive. This does not mean he is not caring or affectionate, he just has no sex drive, he told me so. However this is untrue, his sex drive is unaturally high, he just doesn't know it. He is a martial artist and takes all of his aggressions out in training, which leaves him feeling better. You see, sex in men is driven by...well...anger. In med. science, they say that it is testosterone that makes men aggressive, also it's that pent up aggression/testosterone that creates our sex drive, and makes it ultra high. So your husband may be lacking in testosterone. This does not mean that he sucks in bed or anything, it just makes him less inclined to want sex. Fortunately, there is a solution (if this is the case) He can join the gym and work out, which helps boost sex drive, also, renting violent movies would help, not sex related, action movies. It's in us to be violent, and those of us guys who are not turned on by watching one guy beating down on another, well...are not guys. Anyways, try it out, see if it works.

Okay, all prior posts are very nice and romantic, but it's not reality. In reality, if the parents find out and disapprove, they can (A) have a restraining order put in place, or (B) make him out to be a pedophile and take him to court for it. Which means, he would probably be some older guys girlfriend for awhile. So, if they are in love like they believe they are, then he needs to back off for a couple years. When she becomes legal to go out with, then they should do whatever they want. The time apart will also give a true test to their commitment to one another. That's reality.

It doesn't really matter how many times you masturbate, unless you do it to the point where you are losing physical stamina and your health is depleting. Yes, you can jerk yourself sick. But the point is, don't worry. Here's a number for you to figure out. When I was younger and in less control of myself I used to masturbate 7-10 per day now multiply that by one one month, and then multiply that answer by one year. You'll be alright.

Okay, look. The male reproductive organs work on a pressure system. So if you just keep going then you're going to cum eventually. Also, if you make it your goal to cum inside her, it's not going to happen because you create mental pressure for yourself, making you nervous that you won't and then really will be incapable. Finally, look on the bright side, at least you know that you are not going to pre-cum and finish before she does.

It's all a matter of preference. Some guys like a full bush(generally the older generation) others like it trimmed or shaved (generally our generation). Here's an idea I came up with yesterday. Why not try trimming enough to where a guy can go down and not worry about getting hair in his mouth? Unless you want him to lick your entire vagina,or if you/he has a thing for appearance you don't have to shave the whole thing. Benefits of trimming: He can clearly see what part he is stimulating, and he doesn't have to go through a patch of hair to get his tongue in, and you don't have to worry about him giving you a kiss and transfering one into your mouth. Notes on Shaving versus Waxing: I've never shaved down there, however, when I shave my face in the morning it itches afterwards. I have done a form of waxing down there though, and afterwards it does get irritated something fierce because of the temperature change. But if you can stand the sensation that poison ivy leaves after touching it, you should be fine. Last remark: Just keep it tidy and there will be no complaints. If you decide to follow none of these ideas and just let it be, at least comb it. Remember that one of the biggest factors in having a good meal is the presentation.

Well the first thing you have to do is free your mind of limitations. "All is fair in love and war." That means you have to be willing to do anything it takes to please her. On to the lessons. You have to get inside the mind of a woman in order to please her, a woman's sexual pleasure is mostly mental because her erogenous zones are linked to her brain, literally. In order to figure out what women like is to pick up a romance novel, flip through it until you find the sex parts, read them. That will give you the basics when you need a reference point. 1)Women in general absolutely love to get massages, if you can give a good massage you are already on your way into becoming a fine lover. 2)Oral sex, women crave it, and any who say that they don't really like it either had a bad experience or are lying through their teeth. Note, this is a long slow process, you don't have to be continuous about it unless you are trying to make her orgasm that way. Tease, go deep, make your tongue into a conductors baton, and whatever you do, stimulate the clitoris. 3)Be fluid in your actions, and take your time. Often times you won't know what to do next, so while you are figuring that out keep doing whatever you are doing, or go to kissing if you are trying to think of a particularly good maneuver that takes alot of steps. 4)Keep your own excitement in check. Focus completely on her so you don't pre-cum, otherwise you are going to go flaccid real quick, remember this is the most physically challenging exercise ever. 5)biting is good (Caution not let your teeth come in contact with her genitals, cause it is uncomfortable to her. Worst case scenario: If all else fails, ask her what she likes (not in progress) and save data for future usage. Ask what she wants (in progress)