I'm really upset with my husband right now. And I have been since we came home from a trip 4 days ago. we were on this trip and looking for motel to stay at while walking down the street. he kept looking accross the street and these girls were over on the other side walking the same pace as us. later i told him something about him checking her out and he said he wasn't that he was just looking at the motels. then later that night we started talking about other people and all about looking and talking and stuff and he said there is a difference between love and lust. i said oh you lust other people and he said he would be lying if he said no, so i got upset and said you mean you want to sleep with other people and he said no! he said he didn't mean it like that that he just mean he thought other people were good looking and that was it. every since then i've been sad and thinking he is sexually attracted to other women. i thought that was what lust mean but he is saying he didn't mean it like that. so now i feel that if we go anywhere or watch a movie or whatever he will be lusting other women all the time. he has never said anything about another woman in front of me or anything though. I just really feel not good enough now since he said he finds other women good looking. why did he use the word lust then if he just meant good looking? can i trust him or no? should we be together if he feels this way? he says i overreacted and that i'm jealous.
