Redbean

Hi. I hope one day i can post my own story. =) Anyway, My fds were broke up for almost 5 months. They are both in their early 20s The guy ended it due to the stress. And he had doubt to the relationship (they dated for 4 years at that time). The girl was depressed. I am not sure the detail but the guy at first just busy himself to forget about the pain, after awhile he realized break up didn't solve his own problems and being apart with her wasn't what he wanted. So he asked for second chance and they girl said yes. They now are together for six years. My fd ended it with her bf of 6 years cos she said at that time she just couldn't handle the marriage and pressure. She just wanted "right now" so she went out to have fun but later on she felt those happiness was short and empty. She got back to her ex after 10 months. They was back together for 2 years and now the guys ended it for the same reasons. She did NC for 3 months and the guy was so regretted. They are in the process of reconciliation. Hope you guys will happy in the end no matter what happen in the future. I pray for all of you. =)

Hi everyone, Day 10 of no contact We dated for 4 years. I treated him very well and I don't doubt it. He though about breakup for like 3 weeks cos he was not sure so I gave him time. But he ended it. He said he felt like he is not ready in relationship. He said he didn't love me the same anymore. OH well. I did begging stuff like that and I stopped. I returned his key and took my piano very quickly (he said I can still have to key and the piano in his house since I teach piano in his house.) And I left the country for at least 6 months so I am starting my NC without telling him. But these couple days I know he was looking for me since I don't pick up phone. My fd said I am not here anymore. I don't know how he feels. But I believe if he truly loves me, he will find his way back. I had made some mistakes but I am sure just minor stuff. Nothing is unforgivable.