mzcookie

well, im in the same situation as u. but im not doing so good with my ex now. he says that he likes me , but he wants a sexual relationship. he says he sees me more than a friend. so, im tryin to figure it out too. i told my ex about how i was feeling about this him and i dont think he is ready for a relationship * to be commited*. he doesnt want to be tied down. i dont know if hes seeing other girls, but he told me he isnt dating anyone cus it would be playing around. i dont know about this either. some of my friend saying he is using me for sex, but cant see that in him. others say its okay cus maybe u'll have a chance n see what happens. but in ur case, u need to talk to ur ex about it and find out what he really wants and his intensions are. cus for my ex, he doesnt know wat he wants. so im deciding on whether or not to move on or not. i love him soo much that i cant let him go.. im sure u feel the same way. thats why ur having this relationship with ur ex.. but do wat u feel is right. dont hurt ur self. im hurting right now very deeply than breakin up wif him for the first time. he doesnt seem to show me how he is feeling. so if u need to talk to me about. just send me a msg anytime. since were in the same boat. we could help each other for the good part. well u take care of urself =D

>> replying back well, i know he isnt ready for a relationship, but maybe he really likes me n just waiting til he knows wat he wants. he says that he seems me more than a friend. cus i mention that to him about FTF. ( friends with benefits). he doesnt see me in that way. he thinks we are in somewhat relationship but not offically you kno?

im soo confused now.my ex says he likes me still. i know hes tellin me the truth. i like him alot too. my problem starts when he doesnt want to be with me offically. like gf/bf. i guess hes not ready for a serious one. he also thinks having a sexual relationship is okay too. i dont mind, but im afraid one of us will get hurt at the end. we talk about this clearly. he said that he isnt dating anyone and it wouldnt seem right if he did. we hardly go out like we use to like when we were toghether. we usualy chatonline sometimes. i dont kno what hes intensions are. i need serious help on this one! i dont know what to do. should i just go with the flow nsee wat happens? or just move on? HELP ME!!