rusty_boi

It is important that when you do start the job you cant expect to know it all right away. Give it time and you will be able to get the hang of things, sure u may do some things wrong at first but thats why pencils have erasers. I have a theory that in most jobs (marketing included) if you got a person who was unqualified but passionate about the job then within 6 months max they would be working equivalent to a qualifeid person. So i guess wat im getting at is ask yourself Am i passionate about marketing? if the answer is yes then dont let anything stand in your way, not a bad boss, not bad class, not anythin

wat evry1 has said is right i just wanted to add this to it. For getting your muscles toned you need to do a lightweight with more sets (e.g. instead of doing a 15 kg weight in 2 sets of 10 reps, do a 5kg weight in 4 sets of 15 reps) . It depends on what level your body is at but basically the more often you do it the more reps you will have to do. You should be feeling pain on the lightweights from about the third set onwards.

I just finished my high school final exams, and to prevent myself feeling alone i used to text message someone whilst i was studying (maybe text a friend of yours or a girl you know). Its a good way to get a mini break from studying and may help you feel less alone. Just make sure your not all wrapped up in the messaging, make sure you study between text messages.

I think hes telling the truth, He may of even told his friend to say it

Ok i must say ive been there and done that. What i found is if u move with ure friend and do something wrong who will discipline u?. And even if her parents do discipline u whats to stop u from saying "Your not my mother/father" Because its true. When i wanted to move out i had to tough it out until i finished school and it is very rewarding. I know it sux and its probably wat u dun wanna hear (I felt this to) but just tough it out until u head down south and ull be better and stronger for it. When u return home ure relationship with ure mum will be better than ever because u left for school and not because of her.

Ok having explored this avenue myself not long ago i have some things you should know.

1) There is a good chance that if u do return from a war u may return missing limbs or having horrific injuries

2) If you do come home pefectly safe you would have witnessed horrific deaths and injuries

3) It will be a long time until you can have a girlfriend

4) You can't leave when you like

These are some points for you to consider when deciding. In saying this make ure decision purely on what u wanna do not what your family says. Another avenue you may wanna look up is policing (Maybe S.W.AT) or firefighting they are very honourable jobs aswell with a bit more breathing room. Let us know what u decide to do

jimmerjammer wat do u mean seeing how far she'll let u go?? e.g. lean in for a kiss?

hey jaffa,

i went 2 school with a guy nicked named jaffa do u live aroud smithfield/fairfield?? if u do i can help u out alot more.

i started drinking around 15 its normally the age ppl start, i personally think u have to balance it out. So i dno mayb instead of getting drunk get tipsy if ure urge to drink is that strong when ure with ure m8s. Just make sure whatever u decide (stopping or not) its because u want to, not 2 make ure gf or ya m8s happy. Ive been designated driver alot so ive seen all mi m8s get drunk while im sober and its actually equally entertaining watching them do stupid stuff.

my suggestion is sit behind her where ure m8s are and start a convo with her and her m8. Try and probe for something you have in common and go with that. i found if i have nothing to speak with a girl i ask a random question like " are we havn a fun bus trip girls??" make it not sound too serious. later on u cud use " are we excited for school??" i say it sarcastically, this kinda stuff works for me. if all goes well then when she gets on the bus say hi, and talk to her occasionally when u c her. if she doesnt like u dont take it to heart, i know its hard but ull be better off. Btw this web site really helped me alot link removed

read all the parts saying "must read"

i used to have the same problem until someone on this site told me about link removed it has help me so much with girls. have a good read of the sections they really put things into perspective about asking girls out.

i had the same problem, i found the best thing to do when they look at u is smile at them. If they smile back its a good indicator their interested.

Honestly, it sounds like the reason she went was because u were very overbearing. Now, she probably feeling choked by u telling her little detail in ure life (im not being insensitive i understand what ure going through im putting it in her point of view). If u keep contacting her even if it is friendly then she is still going to feel choked by u. My suggestion is try NC for a while and once the dust settles try again.

Thank you so much, that is the best thing i have ever hear in my life. you are a saint

Hey all,

Lately ive come to the self belief that my sole purpose in life is to fail. I think back to my life as a little kid to now and i realise i have always been bad at things om passionate about. Sport, i luv it to death but im really bad at it so now i play for fun and im still terrible, i tell myself but not everyone can be good at sport so thats fair enough. So i try go good in school, get pretty good marks but with the state rankings (University Admission Mark) I got a ridiclously bad mark, so i tell myself maybe school isnt my thing. So i re assess again for something small; a gf. My last 2 gfs dumped me for other people (apparently not my fault) this was over two years ago. Since then every girl i like doesnt like me and every girl who likes me i dont like, So i tell myself maybe thats just bad luck. Ive took guitar up 2 years ago, after a year i had a rough idea of how to play. Ive been practicing for about an hour a day since then and still havent improved, by now i should be able to play most songs, i struggle with alot, I tell myself maybe its one of those things. I live in a really bad crime filled area and when i asked all 3 of my older sisters if i could live with either of them, they told me yes to my face. Then told my mum no behind my back. I was hurt more at the fact that i had false hope rather than not moving, so now i have huge trust issues with family. My friends well they all are getting gfs which is kind of leaving me out in the cold now, we still hang out but they speak about their girls alot and i cant exactly have input.

The only thing left in my life i have to be passionate about is to become a firefighter but going off my history im worried that im going to fail, then what will i have....Nothing. I am an optimistic person despite what this post will lead you to believe, in all these situations ive tried to find a positive and it is this. I have my health and I always found someone on this site i could help with experience or knowledge, So who helps me get out of this is what i want to know. What happened to Karma? Some people might say these things happened to me so i could help someone else. But at what price? My happiness? My hopes? My dreams? Let me know what u all think positive or negative.

Ok, basically there is this girl who is a friend of a friend and we met at schoolies (spring break). Ever since then our groups have been close. Anyway i like her a fair bit mainly for her personality which has never happened to me before. Problem is she really likes this other guy and dere practically going out. Im thinking ill move on find someone else and if were both single again tell her how i feel bout her. Ok now at NYE she told me to hook up with her friend, i was drunk so i did. When we were kissing her friend stopped for a second and said "wait a minute dont u like Liz" and i said "it doesnt matter how i feel she likes sum1 else" Then the rest of the night is a blur. So i assume she knows. Do you all think my plan is the right thing to do. I can handle bein rejected but i cant handle not knowing.

Its kinda hazy at this stage, but it sounds like she is trying to keep her options open. She wants u 2 be her backup. Best thing to do in my opinion is 2 ask her jokingly "whats with the 3am calls, u thinkn of me be4 u sleep? haha" see how that goes. Or be blunt and ask her, u have nothing to loose really

Human nature my good man. U want her cause u cant have her. It happened 2 me once i thought id neva get ova it but i did and so will u. chillax

I think go on another date with her and see how things go, if all goes well then ask casually when the date is nearing an end.

Ok, you sound identical to me until 6 months ago; parents fighting, neva opened up, etc. I can understand what your going through. First of all what i did was found someone to open up to outside the family, a close friend was mine. And it is really hard to do it at first, i did little things and built my way up as opposed to throwing all this stuff at him. Next thing i did was found someone i could talk to in my family, this was my brother in law (It can be an aunty uncle whoever, you can try with your mum again but only if you think it will be valuable help) again i eased into it i didnt open up right away because i was very causious (i have and still to a slight degree have family trust issues). After that it became alot easier to open up to more people i went at my own pace and u shud 2. Dun think that you are burdening people, know that if they need someone to lean on ull be there, so its give and take. Now univeristy you dont have to go. A teacher at my school said this to me "You dont need money to be happy, if you can wake up in the morning and think YES! im going to work then you are happy." My main thing with a job is i want to do something new every day so now im applying to be a firefighter, failing that a cop. So you have to think what do u want to do the most in life (take the whole money factor out of it) and then youl know, think of what interests u the most sport, reading, whatever.

speed dating is a room full of people seated at chairs and you have about 1 minute to get to know each person, you change tables evry minute then you tick if you like the person. at the end of the night if there is a match you go on a proper date with them. I dont know about price or where it is. if you search google for speed dating wherever you live you should be able to find one.

Maybe try some other stuff like speed dating or one of those things. My personal favourite is the blueberry party. Everyone is at a bar with a number on their shirt and a blueberry in hand, and if you see someone your interested in you text them and start talking, if you hit it off you meet up at the end of the blueberry party. Itl be good for you because you still have the mask of a screen even if it is for a while.

Umm ok well heres a summary of the backgorund info

Worked with her, she asked me out i said no cause i wasnt 100%. She later goes out with my best m8 (after asking me) and me and her become close m8s. They break up and me and her lost contact. This was over a year ago, when they started going out i began to get feelings for her but said nothing.

A couple months ago me and her started speakin through the occasional text i started it in a bid to recindle our friendship noting else and i realised my feelings hadnt gone, they became really strong by now. Any way after alot of schedule clashes we finally went 2 a party last night and i drove her home. We had alot of fun together that night catching up, we have planned to go xmas shopping when i get back from my holiday next week. I finally messaged her today and said "....when we go xmas shopping do you tink it could be as more than friends and see how things go from there, i know its a prolly a shock and really random but its the first time ive been 100% on a girl". She sent back this "ok yeh it is a shock actuali, dont noe wat 2 say at the moment im jus bout to go out giv me some time and well talk soon ok xo"

Im assuming this is a bad sign, but im hoping im wrong so wat do use all take of it? Good or Bad, and what do i do from here.

thanks

id tell him

your probably gonna go insane (if u havnt yet) not telling him. So go for it the whole dating game lives off risk e.g. risk of asking some one out, or in your case risk of telling someone you love them

dont be so harsh shoegal, he is on his first step to finding out what love is through this relationship, that is the point of a teen relationship to give you skills and knowledge for the future, learning from mistakes. In regards to your situation its simple. I think if the fights are over small things and are hapening often then end it. You and her wont want to but it will be best for use in the long run. Your only young so you dont want to be tied down in a stressful relationship yet. If you and her are meant to be together then you will end up together again i promise. Let us know how u do