calisurfer

Gallop30 said it best. Do nothing. Do not contact her, avoid her calls, no txts, NC all the way. I would block her from my cell. You can use googlevoice for that. It sounds like you are almost over her and you really don't need this right now in your life. SnippotII also has great advice. Where was she when you needed help and were dealing with the shock and pain of the breakup. Let her deal with her own demons, guilt or other emotions she's feeling right now. Talking or seeing her will only set you back. The only reason she showed up was for her own selfish reason. She feels lonely, she feels guilty, she needs emotional support. Sorry to be so foul, but f that. You gotta be strong and just walk away. It looks like your having fun with these new girls. Good for you man, you really don't need to be dealing with your ex's demons right now. Walk away and be strong.

OK I'm all freaking confused cuz my ex txted me a few hours ago and I'm trying my hardest not to txt back. Long story short we were together for 1.5 years (gay relationship) and he took off one day to go visit his brother. He calls a few days later and dumps me says he's not gay, he loves me but isnt in love with me. Same ole things everyones heard before. Well the next day after the bu I find out via a mutual friend that he already has a gf and is living with her. So it's been a really tough month. Added to the fact he dumped me a few days before x-mas was really painful. Ok well I got a txt this morning asking if he could meet up with me to chat and since it's going to be at night if we could spend the night somewhere. Seriously, what the f&^*. I haven't replied since. Why can't he just leave me alone. Part of me wants to txt back and be like okay where and when. It's a VERY small part. I'm just in shock and want to text back something pretty foul that would get me banned from this place. Is he really that selfish that he could care less about my feelings. It's really disturbing to see this side of him and to know that I fell in love with someone like him.