WILTED ROSE

I would avoid a new serious relationship at this point. It sounds like you're not quite ready to me. Rebound relationships don't last long and they are not fair to the third person getting involved.

Sounds like you both need to sit down for a long discussion of closure. If she already has another love interest, that's a sure bet for closure in itself. I don't know which route you need to take, but you can't just sit there and do nothing. If I were you, I'd tell her she has a choice. To stay and help re-build your relationship and take everything that has happened and make some good out of it. Call it wisdom. Or she can leave, just give up on any hope of recovery and let everything go to waste. It's a gift of choice that you are giving her. Holly's ideas, though sweet indeed, are not allowing you to get to the meat of the problem,... the other guy. That needs to be brought up regardless if it's a turn-off to her. It will show you care.

It sounds like you need to put her in your past to me. Focus on you, not her. She does'nt seem too interested in you right now, so let her go. Start dating again. Find something to distract you. Get your life back.

EASY!! Just ask her if she has a boyfriend. If she doesn't, ask her if she'd consider going out with you. If she say's yes that's great. If she say's no, take it like a man.