Here Goes.. 'forgive spelling and grammar'....
I have been in this relationship for 5 years now, we hardly ever fight, aside from the spat now and then, We have both been faithful.. I am a fool, last night she tells me "She is not 'In Love'" with me anymore, and they she wants to end it.. This caught me totally off guard, as we have had (what I though) of as the almost perfect relationship.. No Kids, Not Married (Choice of Both). She of course says she Loves Me, and it was not my fault, but after this slap of Reality, I realize it is my fault.. Admittedly I am not the most Romantic Guy around, I am not totally UnRomantic, but I am not a full time Romeo. Somewhere along the way I let it slip, and I never saw any of the warning signs.. She said she has been feeling this way for some time now, but its finally come to a head.. I can't lose this Woman.. I don't want to smother her, I wants whats best for her, but I can't help feeling selfish.. I don't know what to do at this point, I have no means to move out immediately, within the month at best, I have no Family Near, 900 miles away, and no friends I would impose on. She has not kicked me out, and is willing to work on my relocation. If I move back home , it fear distance will make the heart grow cold, and not fonder, if this is something she has been mulling over, her heart has already been steeled for this.. I know its best that I pack my stuff, and give her space as soon as I can.. There was no Trying, No Working on the Problems, No Chance to Change, I guess No Communiction.. From what I have read there are some very insightfull posters here.. I need HELP.. Ultimately I would let her go, if that's what would make her happy.. But I don't want to...
Any Advice would Help..
Thanks,
FeelingLost
