innocent_evil96

Hey Im in a similar situation as you except that my bestie moved away and the fact that she kept travelling overseas and meeting new people made us more distance and now I'm stuck with no one at the moment and its been like this for over one year. It used to be so easy before, like back in high school when everyone knew each other and so you could meet someone and they would introduce u to other people and so on. Now its like people have things to do or they are busy, and I feel like I'm interrupting someone while they are doing something or whatever. I'm not used to getting out there and just talking to people. I wish someone could teach me how to meet people and make friends

Yes I kinda do believe that Cyber and Real are two separate worlds. There was this guy that I got to know through the internet (although I had seen him in real life just once and that was very briefly, actually he saw me and got my details from a friend) and once we had an argument online and he just didnt come online to talk to me for like a month. I knew where he worked so I went there but tried to act like I 'just walked pass' and he came out from his work place and said 'hi'. He was normal and he didnt even act like we had a problem or anything. In fact we were very normal and strangely things were pretty much normal after that. I didnt know this guy much in the 'real' world, only online so it wasn't a problem. I guess if u havent met in real life then it should be fine. Let me know how you go.

Hey there, gosh i tort i was the only one with that problem. But its been two years since i broke up with my ex and i still see his friends around and yes, they do mention him but i dunno if they r doing it "purposely" or just "unintentionally". I had this prob like a year and a half ago, thinking, "hang on, am i still friends with them? Shud i b friends with them?" Gosh i was soooo confused! But ANYWAYS, no matter what, they still remind me of him. I mean, i guess they are also in a position thinking the same. Its really a choice, if you wanna be friends with the ex's friends then u can, but you wont really get anywhere. Sooner or later you probably grow apart from them. And if you choose not 2 be with them, then i guess they will probably understand. From personal experience, I wouldnt really be close to the ex's friends, an occasional hi, hows it going is fine. But besides, its just eventually become like this anyways, ive just grown apart from them. I just get annoyed when they mention his name coz the least i know about him, the better!!