tenacious_buc

thanks for the advice, but just let me clear something out. i was thinking of breaking up with her, but in fact, she broke up with me. thanks again

here's the story: this girl and i were best friends for about a year. then we started going out. today we broke up. there were many reasons for it to end: her sister hates me for a stupid joke i made on the phone. it was something stupid, but she made a big deal out of it. i tried to apology but she wouldn't hear me. my ex told me that her family is the most important thing in the world for her. she also said that we were too different in some things and that it made her feel uncomfortable at times. i also thought that breaking up was the answer mostly because i didn't want her telling me how to act. in addition, i loved her madly (still do), but i never got the feeling she fully loved me in return. she repeated several times that she loved me, but not madly. after we broke up she said that she would like us to be friends again. i told her that it would not be possible for the simple reason that i still love her. i said that we should only try to be comfortable with each other in the same room (we have some mutual aquintances). i don't know what to do. if she loved me, she wouldn't want us to be friends now. i think i couldn't handle it, but i feel like crap for having said that to her. any feedback, opinion or solution would be greatly appreciated. thanks

i was in a pretty similar situation a few days ago. my only advice is to talk to her about it. communication is the key of any relationship, wether it´s a friendship or a romance. one tip: after disscusing it, make a pinky promess with her not to stop being friends if the romance goes wrong. good luck

1. Siempre recordaré los tiempos especiales que hemos tenido. Te voy a extrañar. 2. Espero que el oro y el tesoro que buscas se revele a si mismo, y te veré pronto. that is the correct translation. it isn´t from a translation program. hope it helps!

i asked my best friend to be my girlfriend, and she said yes. on that day, i invited her to a fancy restaurant, played pool and walked on the park. when we were saying goodbye, i kissed her. the problem is that there was no tongue involved. we kissed for a while and as hard as i tried to french, she wouldn´t do it. it was only lips on lips. she had the flue, so i don´t know if it was because of it or because she doesn´t like to french kiss. i'd ask her, but i don´t want her to feel uncomfortable. any guesses or advice?? thanks

at the end of the night i told her. i was incredibly nervious. we were interrupted by her mom. later, i told it all over again. she said that she didn´t know. that before she was jealous of me and other girl. then we became friends. and now she doesn´t know what to think or feel when we stare at each other. we will meet on friday to discuss it further. i have chest pain and nausea (literally). please, leave some advice

as a guy, i honestly have to say that i'm usually more attracted to personalities than to looks. by this i don´t mean that looks aren´t important, of course they are. what i´m to say is that there´s an appeal for everyone. anyway, if you want to attract a nice guy, just be friendly. talk to him as much as you can, go out wih him and stuff. if you like this guy, it will be easy to laugh at his jokes and find interest in what he says. we really enjoy that. on the other hand, be sexy. being sexy isn't always showing clevage. sometimes a secret smile that you use only for that person is the sexiest thing. also make eye contact all the time. you may also touch his arm or give him a little hug every now and then. i'm sure that will work. good luck!

ok here i go i´m 20 years old. i´ve known this girl for about 3 years, but we have only been best friends for about half a year. i really like her. i think i´m on the verge of falling in love. I love her personality and i find her physically attractive even though most of my friends don´t. most friends think i should aim higher, but i don´t want to. she´s everything i want. every wednesday we go to the movies and i usually see her one or two days during the weekend. i talk to her almost daily on the phone. i think she likes me, but i´m not certain. she always lets me hugh her appasionately. she usually giggles when i talk to her. a friend of hers told me that once she told her that i was the sweetest guy. well, it´s all good right? wrong. last friday we went to a party. we talked for a while and stuff. standart. today i was talking to her best friend and she told me that she asked her to bring a cute guy that was at the party more often. when her best friend told me that, i froze. i couldn´t smile, i couldn´t think. i just wanted to go to sleep.. and break something on the way. i felt jealous as hell. on the other hand, every time i stare at her in this "i´m a dumb guy in love" kind of way, she stares back at me for about two seconds and then turns away nerviously. i don´t know what to think. this is why i want your honest opinion on this matter. should i go for it with this girl? please let me know what you think by tuesday or early wednesday, because i´m planning on going for it at the movies. thanks for listening!