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I have broke up with my boyfriend now for just over a month and still every weekend i see him cause we share friends, so we go to parties and out for drinks and things like that. I think the cause of our breakup was his brother but he goes away on thursday. In my opinion it seems to be he ends up everywhere i do, even when i find out that he wasnt going in the first place, but he ends up there when i get in. I dont know if im reading too much into this but. We were at a party on saturday night which he wasnt going to but did, well he kept sort of either moving towards me or moving accross the room so he could watch. Also i caught him just staring at me a few times. My friend was upset so i went to comfort her & when i got back he had left because he was getting a lift with someone, so i decided to send him a message saying that, sorry i didnt get to say goodbye and hope he got home alrite and he was looking tired tonight. I didnt get a reply, still havent but i was sitting in the car with my friend last night, which he is friends with and he said about did we want to go to the cinema but it was too late. He didnt know i was in the car and he asked how i was and what was i doing tonight. Can anybody tell me what this means and what i should do. I was going to wait another 2 weeks to let his brother get away, wasnt going to text him or phone him or see him at all, let him miss me but it is killing me. I dont know if i should phone tonight and just be friends, asking how he is and stuff like that or leave it to thursday night cause he will be in his house on his own and stuff or just leave it completely to the 2 weeks is up.Can someone tell me what to do, i really need him back.

Hello,i would be grateful if people could help me. Me and my boyfriend have been apart for just over 3 weeks. We had a break because he didnt know what he wanted and dont know now if he still does or not. We share friends so i still see him at the weekends and he works hard during the week so dont think he has time to think about it. There are still a lot of things that tell me hes still interested but then things would come up that would tell me he isn't. We were out at the weekend with friends and he was getting on like a real hard man, which is not him, i dont know what he was doing but he wasnt being himself, the person i have fallen for, what does that mean? I know he is the one for me cause hes all i ever think about 24/7, so i dont know if i should just keep going out with our friends and see him at the weekends or let him miss me for a while, keep out of his way totally. I dont know if i should try and give up on us getting back together or keep the holding on because i do love him so much and dont want to give up. What should i do, im in a real mess. Thanks everyone.

The only thing i could say being a woman myself,i would like to know cause you never know her feelings might be the same deep down but you will never know if you dont try and if it comes out that you have scared her, which i dont really think would happen, just tell her that you needed to say those things cause if u didnt you would have regretted them for the rest of your life, kept saying well what if i said something to her it could all have been different. Good luck.

hi. I agree with everyone else.I think you should sit her down and talk to her tell her how you feel deep down inside,look at it as it you have nothing to loose,but listen to what she has to say carefully. All the best.

Me and my boyfriend have been broken up for just over 2 weeks now.I know it was my fault we broke up cause i was getting very possessive and clingy,phoning and texting him constantly everyday,then sending stupid text messages saying "love you" and other stupid things when we just weren't ready for that.He keeps telling me he doesnt know what he wants, then he said he thinks he knows what he wants and it is just friends but he hasnt actually said its over.I said to him about giving it a 2nd chance but he never answered.Then i asked him does he have feelings and he said not strong enough ones at the moment. We share friends so i see him at the weekends a lot, my friends tell me that he seems to be jealous when we go out to pubs and he keeps on asking our friends about me.There are things that tell me its totally over and things that tell me it isn't. There are so many things we have in common and so much that has been done for the 1st time for both of us. I have been looking up websites for ways to get your man back and have played it like that just being myself, loud and not being clingy,the way i was when we 1st met and just really showing a bit of interest but not too much. Now it is hurting too much after seeing him at the weekend and just us back together again cause i know he is the one!Just want him to give me another chance to prove that i can give him his space,(which i have been since we broke) and we are both supposed to be together but how long does it take for someone to see that or miss what they dont have. I would be grateful if anoyone could give me advice on how to play it around him or any other advice in general on what to do cause i need to do something soon cause i really cant take anymore.Dont know if i should give him more time and try and stay out of his way and let him miss me or get my friend to ask him is he missing me and if he is a bit to give it another chance.Thanks. p.s does any one think those love tactics on how to get your boyfriend back works?