dealwithit883

HOney, if your are not happy leave.You are putting way too much emphasis on "living together" Ok you all live together...are there a any other binds attached...such as a marriage or children. If not...then you there is no reason why you should be depriving yourself of happiness. life is too short. it doesn't sound like he's ready to be committed to anyone or anything. I hope this helps!Good luck hon!

Hi, I am currently going through a very similar situation. the only difference is that I have a baby. It sounds as if your bf is very immature. Did you claim him on your taxes as a dependent?Apparently you made his life very very easy. Which sadly can be a sign of weakness.That was your mistake...never try to win him by giving him everything he wants and desires.Let him earn it by giving you the respect you deserve. I guess you were anticipating growing together.It sounds like his plans are much different from yours. He's just out to use and abuse you. Do yourself a favor and find someone that's just as self-sufficient as you. Your bf is a loser and as soon as he earns that degree, he's definitely going to move on and forget all about you.I am speaking from experience. It will be hard ...but time heals all wounds. There are still some nice people left in the world.Dont worry about him. Just be thankful that you don't have to deal with it anymore. Let your old problem be her future problems! Good luck to you!

I am going through a very bad break up. My situation is kind of unique because we have an 8 moth old son together. We've been together over 3 years and I still love him very much. I recently left my boyfriend after I caught him cheating on me. I did not ask him for an explanation. He was caught red-handed.I moved out,took all the furniture and had the utilities disconnected.I am currently living with my parents until my apartment is ready(which is 60 miles away). I have accepted that the relationship is over and there is no cahnce of us ever getting back together. I have decided to move on.It has been soooo hard for me. He is still with that same woman and I live in a very small town so I constantly have to hear "I saw your b/f with some woman". I try not to go out because I don't want to accidentily see them together.I know this woman personally and she will sleep with anyone for money.Whenever I think about him I get sso angry.We have been through so much together. I know the only way to really get over him is to move away and start a new life with just my son and I. So I don't have to see or hear from him for a while. Getting over him will take some time and I need to get away to eliminate any probability of contact. It's been over a month now since I've seen or heard from him. The problem is I'm seeking a child support order so we have to see each other for appointments, which is three days away. I'm afraid that once I see him it will be a set back for me. How do you move on when there is a baby involved? That reminds me of him everyday?