garethhughes1969

this is the problem if we fought all the time.hated each other i could understand it but thats the problem we still get on i think the problems me ,i dont meet these people in bars its when im sober and thinking straight,i think the problem is me somewhere im still looking for something ill never find

i dont think its truly about sex,im not religious but live and die for my kids, its just that ive upgarded my job,my home,and still i feel this great cancerous hole/desire eating me i dont where the next few years are taking me, but i dont intend leaving my wife and family i just want someone to say dont be so stupid,you have everything you need and teh urge to wreck it all to end !

for a start of im not religious ivve seen too many good people die young with no respect and the females ive met have been at the train station not in sleazy joints as you suggest, i want to stay loyal its not my dick thats leading me i believe its my heart and soul and its not a one night stand that i think its seeking im mixed up and in need of help not patronising

yeah i thonk so too but i dont know who to talk to im not the therapist type my dads too distant and my friends i dont feel theyre the type to discuss this with and the timings wrong for my partner

im no expert but it sounds like he needs time or is going through some sort of crisis lifee examination he needs to know what he actually wants from life and i reckon if you force it he'll walk they say abscence makes the heart grow stronger i hope this is true for you

i dont know quite whats wrong with me im 34 married two kids number 3 on the way next year.self employed and happy at work at last,never benn unfaithful in my life only every had one sexual partner but a few girlfriends before i got married,but recently ive felt the wanderlust,ive chatted up females on the route to work,on the internet and cancelled two dates ive set up with people who know that im married with kids,i should be happy but i feel theres soemthing missing,i dont knwo whether its purely a sex thing,a midlife crisis,a cry for help or what,the fact that i keep cancelling dates mean i think that i want to stay true but i cant help myslef asking people out,i had a near scare last year when i was on a guys night out and almost ended up going home with someone,but when i i went home i confessed all please someone help me im really mixed up,i dont know if its related to the death of my mum 15 years ago as ive always felt a hole was there in my life that i couldnt fill or if thats just an excuse for my bad behaviour, i havent been unfaithful yet but it feels like a timebomb help