Hey whats up guys/gals,
listen....i myself have fallen victime to heart break this past year..and am doing very well with the healing process...I was going out with the love of my life for 2 years....we went to the same university and spent ever waking moment together...then I transferred out of that school to another school in the smae province and things just COLLAPSED!!! We were 19 yrs old when we started and 21 yrs old when we ended things..
During the last few, bitter and hostile months...i heard the same crap..and BS that you guys all did..ohh space, time, independence and that good old' we're too young for this...these are all valid excuses to not get involved...but after 1yr, 2, 3 or 4..or whatever the case maybe...to use such vague excuses and cop out..is really ignorant if u ask me.....basically i think the spark/fuse had died between us..and i sense the same thing amongst these other relationships in this post.....once the spark dies, there is always bitterness, hostility and tension.
So there i was, left stranded, confused and heart broken!?#$! wht did i do--> the best advice I would give to anyone, anywhere, who ever faces the circumstances of loneliness or broken hearts is to KEEP YOURSELF BUSY !! FORGET THE GIRL !! join clubs, hang out at malls, go out with friends, go clubbing (if age permits), check the movies out, do new things.....do what ever it takes you to KEEP your mind of this ex-lover of yours!!!
Once I got into the rthym of doing this...thoughts of my ex were slowly fading away...i think i really took the break up personal...and I vowed to make something amazing out of myself..that one day..my ex...shall sit there and realize and think to herself..."Wow I lost/gave up on a REALLY great Guy!!" it is those thoughts, and feelings which i seek to ignite in my ex's mind..though it may sound saddistic....but its true...far too often ppl's lives collapse and crumble after broken hearts...but I vowed to be different, I vowed to be strong and active...and I ENCOURAGE ALL OF U TO DO THE SAME !!!! Make something of urselves, be Proud, Dont let ur Pride down and keep moving forward!!1 other then that i would say there is no better medication for a broken heart..
To prove my point....nearly after 4 months of having ABSOLUTE NO CONTACT with my ex...she msn'ed me once just this past week...usually i would just ignore her msg's and stuff...but a lot had changed in my life since we broke up and almost all of it was positive change...so i kinnda wanted to make her aware of that and told her of all the great things..ie. my acceptance into law schools, family success etc. and I COULD literally sense her jaw dropping on the floor thru the msn screen..u know why...cuz she was still on the same boat that she had been on when we broke up...nothing new..nothing exciting..all she could say was..ohh nick..your gonna go so far in life.. ......i may sound angry at my ex..but she truly is a sweetheart...and helped me really turn my life around....we may not be lovers...but i appreciate her friendship and will continue to make an effort at it!!
to this young 17yr old, who is calling, paging,txting and buying flowers....ur being played for a fool (pardon my language and harshness0 but ur 17......trust me....ur life has not even started....ur gonna see sooo many beautiful girls in college/university, at workplaces, at clubs etc.etc. so keep ur eyes open and ur bound to come accross someone who will love u and appreciate u as much as u do to them!!
thats all for now..but if u have ne further questions dont hesitate to email me at email removed