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alright, ive been talking to this girl online for about 3 months now and we finally met a little while ago at a concert and we basically had a good time. but on that day she gave me a ton of mixed signals. for example, one minute she would let me touch her and smile at me and everything. the next minute she would not let me touch her at all. things went on like that on and off the whole day. after the day i saw her, she wouldnt instant message me as much at all. she hadnt been calling me even before we went to the concert, and i just dont understand what i should do. i mean how do i spruce up the conversations we have on the internet and on the phone. im not sure if shes lost interest or if shes playing hard to get. I REALLY NEED SOME ADVICE, HELP PLEASE ASAP!!!

i need help on some tips for this date im going on. its my first date and im taking her to a concert. ive known for her for 2 months now. we met over the internet and were finally meeting. i would just like to know if anyone has some suggestions because i dont know when would be the right time to try and reach out for her hand and hold hands, or when it would be ok to lean in for a kiss or something like that. im pretty nervous, i have no idea when the right time for anything would be. please give me some tips on that. AND ANY OTHER INPUT WOULD GREAT AS WELL!!

I REALLY NEED HELP NOW!!! OK, HERES THE STORY... i was talking to her online and we were having a good time and everything, we were planning to see eachother on this upcoming monday and go see a movie and hangout and whatnot. but while were talking a lof of the time shell show me things that guys have said to her and she knows i dont like it. i tell her how i feel and she says shes not trying to make me mad she just thinks what her guy friends are saying is funny and she just wants to show me. so anyway were talking and, i get really jealous when other guys are talking to her, friends or not. i just do for some reason. and she was telling me how her next door neighbor ( guy friend of hers) is hitting on her on aim. and i asked her if she likes this guy and she said NO! HES JUST A FRIEND IM NOT ATTRACTED TO HIM! and im like ok. then she was telling me how she hates when i ask her questions about guys and that i ask her all the time(and i admittidly do). and then she said she was getting really mad and how she hates when i asked her those questions. i got a little defensive in just saying well i do that cause you always show me things that guys say to you and what was i supposed to think. then she got really mad and blocked me. i tried like 3 or 4 other screen names to try and talk to her but she said no im really mad and for me to leave her alone. ive been really depressed. she did this before and blocked me but she unblocked me like 30 mins later or so. its been about a day and she hasnt unblocked me or tryd to communicate or anything. i really do not want our relationship to end because this girl means the world to me. i love her so much, i cant even explain how much. i dont know what i should do. try instant messaging her on another screen name? but that might just get her more mad. should i wait a few days and do that? should i talk to 1 of her friends? I NEED HELP PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE ON THIS!!! PLEASE!!! I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO!!! I WANT TO TELL HER TO ILL CHANGE AND STOP BEING A JEALOUS PRICK BUT I DONT THINK SHELL believe CAUSE SHE REALLY MAD RIGHT NOW!!!

thanks for everything u guys are really helping me out. and sad to say i havent met her yet

ive been talking to this girl online for about 2 months now and at first everything was going really well and we have like EVERYTHING in common, same interests and i love her personality and everything. the only problem is that she talks to a lot of guys on the internet as well as me. she tells me that theyre just friends and nothing more but how can i tell if shes just saying that or if shes telling the truth? i really want to be with this girl even though we live 25 miles away from eachother. i fell in love with this girl and i dont want to come off as as someone whos "too available." and like that im to easy to get and theres no "hard to get" situation. and i think i already have and i need to know IF ANYONE HAS ANY TIPS on that cuz i really dont want her to lose interest in me and not want to be with me or anything! PLEASE HELP!!! I NEED ADVICE ASAP!!!!!!!