Gaz

Ive never told anyone this but I think I am depressive but I just sort of hang in there most of the time, but you should try the anti-depressants because you are young and you have a good chance of getting better for it, it wont hurt will it? Sincerely good luck my friend.

OK being honest this might help I used to touch my gf quite a bit in that area and if she would respond with a `mmmm` then I would go further if not I would leave it. Hope this helps. Gaz

War does strange things to people, give him time and space like he says he needs then see what happens. I like many other people saw the war like some sort of WWF match on TV but to him it was very real and it affects people in differrent ways. he needs to adjust to normal life again I think, but I could be wrong, good luck

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Not that Im any expert but my brother has had two kids with his wife and two of hers are from a previous relationship which majes four LOL and they manage ok plus two dogs and fish and a rabbit. I love my neice and nephew loads I just wondered why you are reserved in having a baby, you dont have to tell me I just wondered. Gaz

If I was in your position I would consider myself the luckiest man alive, dont waste the oppportunity to be happy for yourself and for her. Id live on the street just to get my ex back, just for one more kiss or for her to say she needs me. Carpe Diem.

I really hope everything works out for you. Going to university is not just an education but a life changing experience, I hope your girlfriend comes out of it with you as you sound very sincere. Hey, maybe one day while shes at uni send her a big bunch of flowers or a big teddy bear to let her know how much u love her. Keep her guessing and she`ll always be there. Oh yeh and dont drink too much otherwise you may do something you`ll regret. If you need me just give us a shout. Im here.

The best thing about sex or intimacy is that it is only REALLY GOOD when your not expecting it

I dont have a drink problem if thats what anyone is thinking but I just think it helps sometimes. I really hope it isnt a downward spiral Ash!

Just be the best you can be, if she finds somene else then she is not for you maybe, there are two sides to every relationship remember. Its your job to do what you can, thats what she sees in you. If your worth staying with she`ll only see YOU all through her time at uni and forget about the other guys who she may get attracted too. The reason why my gf left me is because I never paid enough attention to myself not just to her! Sounds strange but is true. I hope it all works out for you.

Oh yeh and if you want to ask her to marry you GO FOR IT, I wish I had the chance!!!!!!!!!!! Good luck my friend.

Trust is a big part of a relationship. When my ex went to uni Im sre it changed her. If I were you I would keep up the contact with her not waiting for her to do it. There is always give and take in a relationship and its never balanced, just let her know you support her and be faithful she will find HERSELF at university and sometimes it changes people, just be there for her.

Sexuality has nothing to do with whether you like someone or not. If you like her tell her and cross the bridge we`re ALL afraid to cross. What have you got to lose? Good luck.

I guess everyone has a `poison` eh?

Speaking from a mans point of view I would say that most of us look at other women and porn quite a bit although most wont admit it so I would say its nothing to worry about. Dont forget that trust is a big part of a relationship and if you dont trust him maybe you should talk to him about it to clear things up. In my experience a lot of miscionceptions in a relationship can be resolved so easily just by talking to each other. Hope this helped. Gaz

My new friend is called Mr.Vodka Im sure you have all met him, sometimes he is the only person who makes me forget, is this a bad thing or not? (This is not a serious post Im just interested if anyone else deals with problems with alcohol, thanks)

nice to see you man

Ask yourself this.....If B was not good looking who would you rather be with, him or your current bf.....not to say that looks arent important but they arent everything, just my opinion

yes send them an invoice for $2000 and see what they say LOL

perhaps they did not have time to look over the designs? Or maybe they are so busy preparing for this event that they forgot to thank you. Im sure that no hard work ever goes unapreciated......

thanks for the replies but actually I meant i was WITH HER for four years and we broke up this July and she left me, my fault sorry

I hope you feel better, I cant possibly imagine what you are going through but life is always hard and we do survive to be better, stronger people. Im sure your mum is looking down on you now and smiling thinking what a wonderful daughter she has. Make her happy by living your life the way you want to. Things can only get better for you and I thank you for helping all these people on eNotalone, your mum would be very proud of you now.

Just remember that war always has casualties and that it is our OWN fault that war is not settled amicably and without hurt. War is only good for showing of the size of your gun ;-)

I separated from my girlfriend of four years in july (I have posted about this before) and we have had no contact at all for months. I had mood swings which is basically why she left but it wasnt my fault. I would just like to know if anyone can say if she will ever come back to me or forgive me or any ways I can get her to understand how much I love her. I sent her a hello email yesterday after a few months of no contact but did not get a reply. Should I send her a christmas card when the time comes or shall I just keep going with the no contact thing? I really love her more than anything I dont know what I would do if I never saw her again. Its very difficult for me as Im sure everyone else has gone through the same thing and worse. I feel lost at the moment.I would just like to say also that this is the best forum Ive ever been on and the support is first rate, I feel better just looking over these pages. Thanks.

I broke up with my gf after 4 years and I really love her. She was my first love and I also made a lot of mistakes like you and now I wish I could start again. I think a first love is the best AND the hardest.

Its very good, it sounds like you have a lot to write about....