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My guess (from personal experiences I'm going through right now...) is that he still loves you. But he's probably infactuated with this new girl. And he most likely doesn't know what to do. He is telling you what you want to hear in case he decides he wants to be with you, and is probably telling the new girl the same things in case he wants to be with her. Don't think hes being a player or anything; he's just as confused (if not more) than you are. I'm going through the same thing right now. Just when I decide I want to stay with my gf, I wake up the next morning completely against staying with her. It's just so hard and confusing. Think long and hard about if you really want to be with this guy. If you do, then fight to get him back. I think him seeing that you are trying to get him back so hard might snap him out of his problem. That's what has occasionally worked for me. Be cool, be caring, be nice, be funny, and above all don't be a B (you know what I mean...). If he decides to dump his new toy for you, then you can rest assured that he loves you. He wouldn't choose love over infactuation unless he was sure it's love. If he keeps his toy then oh well, he probably would have just ended up cheating on you anyway as he is more into looks than people. If you want to swap relationship stories or just wanna talk more about it or anything my e-mail is email removed . Good luck with this and anything else you may encounter in the future.

Jesus dude, I don't even know what to say. To be quite honest man, I was thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend but reading your post made me break into tears and reconsider. I couldn't even imagine this happening to me. I guess the best advice I can give you is that things WILL get better. It's a fact of life. Every morning the sun will rise, and every night the sun will set. The world works in cycles. Just because you went from top to bottom doesn't mean you'll never make it to the top again. And things always have an odd way of working themselves out. The second you stop trying to find the answers they will find you. Just let life live itself out, and you will be surprised at how things work. Just remember to not hold yourself back. Don't pass up life to morn her. If she truly loved you she would want you to be happy at all costs. Just as you would have wanted her to be happy at all costs. And think of that as your mission. If she loved you the same amount as you love her then the only way you can truly honor her memory is by fulfilling what she would have wanted to live for - the chance to make you happy. Every day that you enjoy yourself; every day that you are happy is a day that you honor her memory. If that involves your friends good, if that involes another woman (Most likely later on, but it will come) then good. If it involves something else, that's good too. Just enjoy yourself. We only get 80 some odd years on this planet and most likely 79 years of that time we will be wasting on things that mean almost nothing. In the end all that matters is that you enjoyed yourself during your life. It sounds like you made the last two years of your girlfriend's life the best years of it, and thereforeeeeee you have made her life complete. Now it is your turn to accomplish what she didn't have the time to do - make your life complete. I wish you the best of luck in everything that life hands to you in the present and the future, and if I ever get around to praying again(I'm not that religious...) you'll be in my prayers. If you need someone to talk to my e-mail is email removed . May your God and mine give you a path to walk on and a light to walk by.