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yeah.. then she broke up w/ me. -.-

god.. i really messed up.. i don't know how things are like this now.. but i just got off the phone w/ her.. and we had an argument.. she says i never try to talk to her or come see her.. when it's the complete opposite.. it ended with her saying don't even try talking to me.. lol god this has envolved into another problem! what do i do i don't want to push her away..

Well as for the fun things.. it's like recently she's been putting me off for her friends.. we only really hang out now once a week.. which sucks.. but i understand if she wants to enjoy her time w/ her friends. we did have some trust issues.. because she lied to me about a few things.. so i mean.. the past month actually hasn't been that great.. the i love you thing.. i mean.. i'm very proud that i love her. it just hurts when i say it and she doesn't say it back.. instead she'll say k and bye, then later to receive a text message on my cell saying sorry i love you... i have no problem being affectionate in public.. i mean.. not too affectionate.. but stating i love you to me is a big thing. but the whole prom thing i really wanted to share those types of moments w/ her.. and to picture another guy sharing those moments just kills me inside. but i did tell her to just go and have fun.. i'm not going to stop her from doing things.. i want her to be happy. but all your advice has been helpful guys and i appreciate it thank you

man i think you're right

Hi... I'm 17 years old and my girlfriend is 16. She's only a sophmore at our highschool and I'm graduated.. Well we've been dating for 4 years... and we love each other.. or I love her... She's been acting weird ever since she brought up prom... someone asked her to prom, "a friend", and didn't even bother to mention it to me until i found out... At first I didn't really see it as a big deal...but i never went to my proms because she didn't meet the grade requirements... just the fact of another guy w/ her makes me highly upset.. and sorta jealous.. it hurt really bad knowing the fact she didn't even consider to ask me how i felt about it... or try to talk about it... and i thought we were in a committed relationship.. i mean i was thinking of marrying her it truly broke my heart. i mean... am I wrong for being upset? or am I being inconsiderate of her wanting to enjoy high school? And I've always noticed something... like when we are together or parting while around other people... she's embarrassed or ashamed... or something.... to say i love you... i don't get it... i love her.. completely.. i mean.... i'm proud at the fact i love her.. and i'm confident i do... but is this bad? or something i should worry about? she's always talking about... how we should talk about our issues and problems and i really try. but when we do, she never has any input... it's always, " I don't know what to say"... Then she says I'm always putting the blame on her... when it's never intentional.. I mean.. gosh I was a really shy guy before I met her... and still am.. she's opened me up and made me see things a lot differently.. but i really just don't think i have.. any.... impact on her at all... except maybe regret i've been so depressed lately thinking about all this.. and yet have talked to her about it... and when we do.. it always blows up in my face as me doing something wrong WHAT AM I DOING WRONG..... if someone would just please give me some kind of.... experience... or... input from their P.O.V. what I should do... i mean.. not given i'd do it, just any bit of input would help. thanks guys. I KNOW THERE IS PROBABLY AT least 1 person out there.. maybe.. going through what i'm going through.