Hi everyone. My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago..He doubted us, he doubted me he doubted himself..Anyway I went to his place because I needed to know. If I hadn't gone to his place I probably would still be in the relationship feeling insecure..He didn't say we're through but kept guessing asking questions, doubting. On my way back home I asked for a hug, and he had tears in his eyes. Well I didn't at first, didn't want him to see how much it hurted me that he didn't give us a try. We were only together for about 3 months. After the break up he talked to me online, normal, we laughed. It felt really great and I started to believe we could be friends. After all we never had a fight and weren't angry at each other. Now he ignores me online. I see him often at a bar we both go to. Last week he started talking, I asked why he started smoking again. All of the sudden he started saying things that were just not true. He said; are you drinking to get over us, then I'm sure I made the right decission! ( I really wasn't doing that at all, I was trying to have a good time, and what does that have to do with his decisssion to break up with me??) He told me I didn't know what I was doing to him, that he knows I still talk to his friends online and so on (to those same friend he said he didn't mind at all).....Awfull things, lies in fact. I didn't know how to react, I wanted to talk like grownups do, but he refused, said we would talk later, that he didn't wanna fight with me. I just ignored him after that conversation. But it hurts, I just wanna act normal, like the first week..somehow he can't do that and I don't understand why He has contacted my best friend this week online, but she says he doesn't have much to say, so it's probably to hurt me...Don't know what to do anymore..I just wanna have a normal contact with him