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I need some opinions on what a friend of mine meant by what he said. Ok, me and my friend have a FWB relationship just about all of our other friends don't know about us. Anyway, today one of our friends was talking to him and made a comment about fixing me up with a guy. Well, my fwb started to get kinda of flustered, and started rambling on about the subject, kinda of joking about it and telling our friend that "yeah, she needs a good guy with no strings attatched". The reason I know this was because our friend was telling me about it and was kinda hinting around with me and I guess trying to see how I would respond to this. So my questions are is why would my fwb start rambling and get flustered when the subject of fixing me up? What about the comment about no strings attached? My guess is maybe he really likes me and he would like our "relationship" be something more. Any help from guys or anyone really!!! Thanks

I went to talk to a good friend of mine about some problems I was having and I was stressed. Well he was massaging my shoulders, while we were talking and I looked up at him as he was saying to something and then he bent over and kissed me. Well, I wasn't that shocked because he kissed me a few months ago. Well we talked about what happened but didn't pursue anything. Over the past months we and even before we the first kiss, we just flirted with each other, it just came naturally for us. He is just that way and I feel so comfortable with him that it was easy for me as well. But we never get past flirting or anything like that. Since we both decided a kiss was just that and to my understanding it was not going to happen again, but a couple of days ago, boom, he kisses me. Maybe I don't have any reason to be confused but I am. He just seems off and on with his feelings with me or wanting to pursue a relationship with me. He does show his concern over me, but he is that way with his close friends. I just don't know what to make of his actions or lack there of, on different occasions. Any help is needed. Thanks!!

I have a couple of friends at work, and we e-mail each other. The guy in our group is very cool. I would consider us (3) very close. Well anyway, he always uses little endearments with us, like honey, baby, sweetie, or sunshine. One day I had to get up the next morning and I was talking with him and I told him about this, well the next morning he texted me and said good morning sunshine, are you awake? He has in the past let me know when he is leaving work or what he is doing. I would consider this him just being considerate with a friend, until recently when he had to go out of town for a few days, well during the time he was gone, our other friend email him, as well as me, and he responded to my email almost as soon as he got back into town and said, honey I'm home. He did not however respond to our other friend for a couple of days, even though me and him emailed during this time. I asked our other friend if he let her know that he was back in town, ie by telling her the same thing he has told me, but he didn't. So my question is......is there more feelings (romantic) for me from him as compared to our other friend? I don't know how guys act when they miss a girl, especially when they are friends with them. How do you tell if it is just friends or more than friends feelings? Thanks for the advice.

I hope someone can help me. I have a problem with my boss. We get along great and I am lucky to have such a nice boss, but I don't know if his actions are just him being nice or something more. I guess it started one day when I saw him looking at me differently, not in a bad way, but when I looked at him he just looked away. Other times he gets "playful", not everyone around the office see this side of him. There have been a couple of times where he will find a way for it to be just us, like this one time he asked another manager to go and take care of something, when it was clearly my job to do so, but he just sat down in the chair next to me and acted like he was working and then we just started talking(about nothing). And other time we were working on something and I was in a different room and I had to go the room where he was to get something and he told me, that I could work on the stuff there with him, although we didn't even talk then. He is always complimenting my work and how good of a job I do, and if anyone says anything about me, he is always there to defend me. Just wondering if he is being a nice boss or if he is interested in me outside of work. Any advice would help......Thank you.