HeartGoesOn

On 4/23/2024 at 6:33 PM, TeeDee said:

The OP & his FI are getting married.  That is a public announcement.  He also shares a 5 year old with his EX-W.  Can you really blame the EX for wanting to meet the woman who will be living in the house where her kid will be when dad has custody?  

Please avoid picking my post apart.  We're all entitled to our opinions.   Thank you, Heart Goes On...

My thoughts are that nothing good would come out of this.   Why not keep your relationship private?

On 4/5/2024 at 8:07 PM, Lexismith said:

I don’t get what the purpose of texting me in the first place was

Because you purposely set it up that way, hoping you'd get a response by leaving a door open.

You're well aware of what you're doing, and the only person you're fooling is yourself.

If you truly want to end this you know what to do, and how to do it.

i

3 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

Nearby Oceans Relieve The Heat 🌊

VIOLA 🎻

Vacationed in Orlando last August.

DAISY

As long as you allow him to run the show you'll continue to see the same result.  What you see is what you get.

I'm sorry, as It's never easy losing a pet.  Keep your memories close, and your heart close to him...

2 hours ago, Bene20 said:

Well, if I have to make the first move then what do I do if she says no? Keep asking girls until one says yes? This seems pathetic.

Ask yourself 'how do I get to Carnegie Hall?"  There's your answer...

I'll be the odd one out and view this in a different light. These situations rarely go as planned, or end without a hitch.

His parents and sister are having their privacy invaded in a way that's difficult to see and understand. I'm sure she's a nice girl, but that's not the point here.

Why are they not living together?  If they can't swing it,, they need to wait until they're able to.   JMO...

53 minutes ago, Lexismith said:

Nooooooo this has nothing to do with me 

Tell her it would be more beneficial if she posted her own story...Less confusing.

Fool me once, shame on you-- Fool me twice, shame on me.  Don't wait around for a third round which would give him the opportunity to pull this again, minus the consequence as before..   

Congrats Captt!

Well done...

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She's a adult who made the choice to get pregnant, despite knowing the consequences of that choice.

I'm sure you have all good intentions, and not to sound harsh yet when all is said and done, she could chew you up and spit you out. 

I would offer her your best advice, wish her the best and walk away.

26 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Restaurants Only Use Good Herbs 🌿

STUNT 🏂

Sit tight until nine tonight.

Shell

On 12/10/2023 at 10:30 AM, Jaunty said:

When in Spain, play soccer.  

ROOMY

Ran over our monkey yesterday.

MAJOR

On 12/23/2023 at 12:08 AM, okay stressed said:

The more I think about it things don’t seem to add up and I’m questioning if he may have made this up to get me to confess to having feelings or to convince me I have feelings for him.

I think there's more to this than what you're telling us. I'll just say that if this were an issue you'd walk away, yet instead you're participating. 

Walk away, as this will not end well.

16 hours ago, 1puropse said:

When I voiced how that makes me feel, he would get defensive and often told me that it means nothing and that I am making a big deal out of nothing.

Classic excuse.  It always "means nothing and you're making a big deal out of nothing." He needs to catch up on his lying skills, as they're too weak, outdated and an insult towards one's intelligence.

I'm not sure why you're tolerating his Bozo behaviour, yet it also begs the question, are you afraid of being alone?

In short, please try raising your value, and find your self-respect.

On 12/4/2023 at 8:59 AM, Tunagirl said:

Am I being taken for a fool or is it just my paranoia?

You were taken for a fool because you accepted his invitation to having sex in his car, despite knowing he was a stranger, and a terrible risk of many things going wrong.

You need to "up" your value while showing respect for yourself. You can do this.

8 hours ago, Karina2801 said:

He was really mad and I’m not sure what to do/say to make things better.

Thats not your job, he's an adult who has the means to tackle his own issues on his own. You alone can't fix him nor change him, that's on him.

I'd make up my mind to walk away before this escalates...and it will.

26 minutes ago, Jaunty said:

Some people eat enchiladas daily.

DROOP

Don't run out of potatoes.

CLOWN

It appears he was trying to even the score, an immature move, which he seems to enjoy.

Time to move on, and avoid stooping to his level  Be the bigger person, you'll survive..

TY, Bolt

Sounds like a nice guy...Dream come true.    😠

I'm not sure if this has already been asked, but how does he support himself? 

2 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

Line Up Now And Run 🏃

NEEDS🙏

Never end every dance suddenly.

NURSE