HeartGoesOn

TY, Bolt

Sounds like a nice guy...Dream come true.    😠

I'm not sure if this has already been asked, but how does he support himself? 

2 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

Line Up Now And Run 🏃

NEEDS🙏

Never end every dance suddenly.

NURSE

16 minutes ago, maleuk123 said:

what i would like is advice in how i say no to her without shouting at her un a calm manner

"NO"   

 She knows she has you wrapped around her fingers, and it's working.  As long as you remain by her side she'll run with it, while nothing changes. She'll likely be singing a different tune if you say what you mean, and mean what you say.

5 hours ago, fantom1399 said:

She has mentioned that she can be out of the house for a couple of days, then I can go for a couple of days so that the load isn't too much for me to handle the kids.

Wow, what a deal!  Obviously, she's looking for ways to come out smelling like a rose while she goes on the hunt.  She's not looking out for you, or the kids. as this is all about her which I'm sure you know.

My thoughts are you can't go forward, and have her on a leash, while waiting for the next shoe to drop.

I wouldn't make any moves until you consult with an attorney.

All the best, Lost!

39 minutes ago, rainbowsandroses said:

Sunday we have another date, a "proper" date since it was planned in advance with a time.  Not a place yet, but he's picking me up at noon and I am fine not knowing what he's planning.

Where is he "picking you up" at?

Be careful what you wish for.

You have a better chance of winning the lottery.

10 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

Lately I Saute Turkey Stuffing 🥘

BACON 🥓

Bring another container of nutmeg.

ONION

Not only is this too close for comfort, it has an even greater potential of creating more problems than what you signed up for.

1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said:

People Only Want Expensive Restaurants🍷

MENUS 📄

Meet every need until Saturday.

APPLE

On 11/18/2023 at 11:55 AM, Wiseman2 said:

Crazy Royals Own Whitewashing Networks.📺

IMPLY🗣️

I made people laugh yesterday,

LEAVE

No offense, but you've given him the message that he can continue with his reckless behaviour, and return anytime he wants to.  He knows you'll be there with open arms where he can hang his hat and stay for a while.

You're better off by raising your standards while having enough self respect to walk away.  My guess is he'll have much more respect for you while learning a tough lesson....Hopefully!

You dodged a bullet.   In the meantime, watch your back.

8 hours ago, poorlittlefish said:

I think that is plenty long enough.  If you are having sex with her, then that conversation should already have happened.

I second this opinion.  Also, the one thing that baffles me, is why is it so easy to have sex right away, yet it's difficult to have a a simple conversation in regards to where you stand?

Of course the words  "to each their own" comes into play, as well.

21 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

Go Running On Snow Shoes 🎿

FAILS 😔 

Fall arrives in late September.

STEAK

58 minutes ago, smackie9 said:

If he keeps believing her words, why is he still trying to get the truth from her?

Spot on!   This simply does not add up.

When someone shows you who they are the first time...believe them!

58 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Many American Kinfolk Eat Rhubarb 🥘

ANVIL ⚒️

Another nice vacation is likely.

STUDY

Although I could be wrong, I have a different take on this.  He wants out, yet doesn't want to cut the cord, in order to look like the innocent party. 

It appears that he already has one foot out the door, therefore help him make his final exit.

28 minutes ago, LoveSiiick said:

I feel suspicious about him, he has a thick accent and blocked me once. Then unblocked me and reached out to me. I don’t trust him.

Since you "don't trust him" why are you asking all of these questions?  No offense, but you already had your answers.

5 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

Guys Usually Eat Some Steak 🍖

IMBUE 🥀

In Maine, boys usually entertain. 

MUSIC

It appears that he enjoys playing the victim, and all the attention it involves.  In short, this will likely go on and on.  

Don't be the star of his silly sounding board, as you can do better.

Try to understand how this tends to say more about you, than it does her. Why not attempt to be the bigger person by keeping your thoughts to yourself, while keeping your dignity?