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I am a courier operation supervisor, I have some college education... I am hack of a driver, with many professional safety driving knowledge and I used to be a street racer back in my wild days, I train many new drivers, looking over the daily operation of an area. Working to become a manager or work in the human resource area.

Well, I think the discouvery channel sometimes have some informative shows about sex after midnight, I remember one night when I was half drunk and there was a show about ejaculations, didn't really look into it, cuz I kind of have an idea of what is it. I don't know if it is approiate to say it here... It is the domestic Japanese AV industries, they often create these scenes on-screen, they have some "male actors" who is very capable of making female ejaculate...

OK, I've been with my gf for almost a year, we love each other and we've been having sex for almost half a year already. Although we use condoms almost 99% of the time, the burning question that she often ask is, "what if I am pragnent?" IMO, this is a very good question, and this is the answer that I often come up with which is telling the truth, "It is up to you (abortion or no), you are the mother. I'll love to be a father and marry you, but financially and my dedication to work at this moment might bring hardship, but I'll take it if you get pregnent." Well, she's busy as well with her work and of course she don't want a baby... Anyways, am I answering this question apporiately?

Thanks for you suggestion, she tried basically everything, and birth control is one of them.

I am guessing you are the luckier one who can actually go to bed when you are having your headache... When the migraine happens to my gf, she can't sleep, just lay in the bed awake, crying, sit on the sofa... I try to help her and comfort her and seems like it works... But then eventually she'll go on the negative side, this is somewhat a distruction force to our relationship... I can have nightmares sooner or later that we are going to breakup trigger by something in our conversations during her migraine, she keep asking questions, or accuse me of something...

I've been with my gf for almost a year and everything has been great, we love each other and it's like a fairy tale... However, she has a problem... She has serious migraine headaches whenever it's around the time of her period, in particular during the days before it's coming. I've witness her cried in the bed, or totally out of her mind during those times... Furthermore, it is not a situation that has seemingly a plausaible medical solution to it, as said by her doctor... I don't know what to do... I mean, seems like she wants me to be with her during those times, and seems like I can somewhat comfort her, at least that is what she says and seems like it is how she feels. However, it's really those during those times that I fear the most to be with her... She keep talking strangely, acting very much like a kid, keep going back to topics that lead to discomfort to both of us. A few times, during those "migraine conversations", she makes me feels that a breakup is coming up; Keep asking if I love her or not and saying that I don't love her etc... However, during her normal or comfort times, those things rarely happens... I need some advice to this situation as I am serious about this relationship, and this is very likely a long term problem that I am going to face...