below is the e mail he sent me before xmas....
i will say this only once, I do love you!! What we have/had is more than anyone can ever dream of having (although it was in a v short period of time)!!! i am also out of sorts over the whole thing too. I suspected you may have still had feelings for me, but i didnt want to be the cocky old **** and say it , as *** likes to say.
I would too value your friendship, and will treat it with respect and integrity and coffe on occasion would be nice.
On the whole feeling thingy, As you know i'm not the best when it comes to the love thing and talking about it etc. I am trying to improve and i hope you have noticed a difference, but we are both now in relationships with significant others at a bummer time of year!!! Also this all has happened so quickly I am just holding back a little to see how it can pan out, a little wisdom needs to be applied as you know the sayig about fools and rushing!!! lol
i hope you understand, i like to take a bit more thought over things these days.
you are vibrant, enigmatic and strong, (and v horny)!!... they are all something that drives me. Lets see how the friendship pans out.
also i should add that on boxing day we both ended up going to the same club. he text me that night saying how great i looked..etc. anyway that night i was really smashed....wasn't expecting to be around the ex so drank like i would on a girls night out. however my friends and his friends knew each other so we became one big group. now i'm a nightmare sometimes when i'm drunk and i did ask some stupid questions like when he was thinking of splitting up with his gf etc. came accross as a bit needy and desperate which was all down to the drink and being around him and his friends. i felt insecure and a bit nervous. he really didn't like the way i acted that night and he said that i let him down. i was a bit annoyed at this as i wasn't his gf that night...plus he made no effort to make me feel at ease etc.
anyway...thought i'd give you a bit more info! lol