Hey well how long have you been with this girl? Have you taken the time to find or ask how she feels about you? She might say she wants you in her life but just haven't reached that stage of saying I Love You. And most likely it will take her longer then you expect because of her past relationships. but all i can say is be patient because you cant rush a person to say i love you, you just have to let it happen naturally. but you can e mail me a email removed my name is venessa good luck