I have been upset about my grandson for some time now. He is 4 & 1/2 now. After visits with his father he does strange things. Like stick his finger in his butt and say, "look hole". Bend down and try and lick his privates. Bend over spread his butt cheeks. He never did this before and only does it after a visit with his dad. He doesn't mind going with his dad so I don't think there is sexual abuse involved. But someone mentioned his father could get big money for child porn. The thought sickens me. So tonight I asked him and I recorded it without his knowledge. I didn't make a scene. He was watching a movie and I said I just wanted to pause it for a second. I then asked him if daddy takes pictures of him. He said no, I said oh, then he said daddy takes pictures of my butt and pee pee. He said daddy takes pictures of his butt when poop is there when it comes out and pictures of his pee pee when he pees. I kept it happy and that was hard. I asked if I took pictures of his butt, he said no. I asked if mommy did and he said no. I asked if daddy's girlfriend took pictures of his butt and he said no she takes pictures of daddy. He then said he took a picture of daddy's butt. Can anyone tell me if this is normal or do we have something to worry about. Any advice will be helpful. Thanks a concerned grandmother
