nightlight7

i think you should be careful of him, sounds like the type who seeks revenge, do not ever be alone with him again. he probably lied about the x-girlfriends anyway.

I will make it quick long story. I met a guy online some years ago, we talked and talked on the phone. He was always messaging me like crazy. It seemed like he was crazy about me..We finally met. I had a great time with him and he made sure I did, took me so some very nice places and introduced me to his friends. I thought we really hit it off.. He lived far away... I was visiting in his area. I stayed with a relative not so far away from him during my 2nd part of my trip. I called him and he never got back to me. Then when i got back home , he called. I told him "why didnt you call me back" He said where i was staying was far. I did not say anything but felt it was rude. Then he had to be in my city on business in some weeks. He didnt make plans, just called to tell me he was in town.. He was with his friends as well. I saw him and again he was very nice gracious. But he did not call me back until he was back home. I really thought I would be spending time with him here. Ever since then he blocked me online. btw hes called me when hes here, i just dont pick up... not sure what happened? to me it seemed liked he was putting distance there on purpose.

beec, sorry you had to go through that. Your grandfather sounds like they way my aunts and uncles are. Why do you think he acted that way? I know that they treated us how they did because of our misfortune. Its too hard for me to wish the best for them, they have done so many things that I didnt write here. I only think i have to go because their family- only family i have. I have no one of my dads side. he had no family being an only child.

Thanks everyone, yea its pretty depressing for my Mom since her family did this to her. I just think shes better off without them. She told me she does not want to go to their funeral if anything happens and she doesnt want them coming to hers. So I guess I will respect her wishes. I really dont want to go to their funerals because the rest of them will be there. I had to go some years ago to a distant relatives funeral and my uncle insulted me to someone right by the casket.

This is a long story but I will keep it short. Basically my father past away and my family was not suportive, my aunt is mean and makes comments like shes glad it happened. We have cut them off, my question is do i have to attend her funeral and the rest of the family since thats the next time i will see them?