vexedxangel

i think at this point u've been thru so much that u need to stop worrying abt everyone else and jus take it easy for a while. i dunno- go away for a week n relax, hav fun !! but also stop thinking abt hurting other ppl's feelings. that'll get u nowhere. u need to find out wht YOU want. but u do admit that u only went to the second guy haflheartedly and that u werent completely 'with' him. maybe u used him as a rebound guy without really meaning to. i think u need to be honest with him, otherwise its gonna come as a huge shock if u do decide to go back to ur ex, and it mite make him more depressed. if u go back to ur ex, dnt think only of the gud times, try n think y it was in da first place that u 2 broke up...the last thing u need is anotha replay.

i think u shud read wht u typed up cos it makes alot of sense !!! he does like u except like every otha guy alive he cnt be straight with his feelings ! so i think u guys need to sit down and talk it out. i think u need to think abit more abt his feelings, cos a guy does hav feelings too !!! and i think it was pretty brave of him to admit dat he was making all that stuff up abt his ex to make u jelous....

no of course it cant. love isnt like flipping a switch, it takes time to build up jus like it takes time to fade. but if u really luv somebody i dont think they'll actually eva fade away from ur heart. but if ur really gaga ova ur gf then u shudnt be really worried abt either of u falling out of luv...

its always easier to talk to som1 on msn than face to face. but maybe even if u've told her how u feel- she doesnt really get it. it might seem hard to believe, but girls can be dismissive sometimes. so maybe u shud talk to her face to face, n tell her how u feel. n u sed u saw it wen some1 hurt her- u say u care abt her but did u actually stand up for her then ??? defend her ??? no u didnt -n maybe she feels that ur just another typical guy... if u REALLY care abt her- then u wudnt be able to stand n watch her get hurt. and remember without friendship their cant be love.