Newo Ikkin

I'm a frontline emergency ambulance technician.....will qualify as a paramedic in 18 months. Have wanted to do this for years and now I've finally got there it's everything I imagined it to be. I love it.

Always wanted to be a paramedic

Currently student who doesnt have a scooby where to go next. Translation, maybe? Maybe.

Drinking tea has a lot of benefits that are up there with water in terms of promoting a healthy blood flow/circulatory system. But a recent study has shown that tea drinkers who add milk to their cup or mug strips away those benefits.

LIES! ALL LIES! *hides away*

I understand what you're saying. But her general safety comes first, and if that means shutting up as opposed to having seven shades of * * * * knocked out of her, thats what I'll advise her to do.

I was bullied, the school and police dealt with it and I was never bothered by her again. Call me lucky, but it worked for me.

I'm a strong believer of not being able to change spots and all that jazz.

He sounds like quite a character, very ready to blame what's happening on you and not take the responsibilty himself.

Families being compatible is irrelevant if deep down you two arent. You've already said you're too scared to marry him! Engagement, although poignantly valuable in my eyes, is worlds apart from names on papers. Especially in cases like this. His chance was being given you. He's messed that up already. Why does he deserve another?

If it continues and you cannot handle the bullying, report the happenings straight to the police. They're more likely to do something about it - after all, it is abuse.

Keep a journal of their actions - what they say, what they do. Get evidence when and where you can - esp on sites like Bebo. Your case will hold better if everyone can see consitency down on paper.

You're not alone...I'm in my second year of A Levels and a lot of issues have screwed up my chances of getting decent grades. Term started on Thursday and I've been too scared to step into school. I plan to have a talk with my head of sixth form today though.

Angel, you can only do what you can do at the end of the day. With regards to the coursework - isnt it possible to stay behind for an hour or two after school and do some catch up? I'd say you're safe from the bullies in an intelligent place such as a library - its like a cross to a vampire. Additionally, you have all the help you need surrounding you. Just remember, dont swamp yourself with schoolwork because you dont want to get yourself into more of a state. Little by little is the key. If there's anything I can help you with, let me know.

As for the bullies...well, the r-tards are absolutely everywhere. 95% of schools who claim to have an 'anti-bullying' policy are too scared to use it anyway. Suspension is BS. Just keep your head up girl - you're better than they'll ever be. They're gonna be stuck in dead end jobs for a lifetime 'cause they're using up all this valuable time targeting people like you and I.

Never retaliate. Never, never retaliate. Dont stoop to their level.

x

The most important thing you've found out here is that 'your' man (who you plan to MARRY) is doing the dirty.

He's getting defensive because he's been caught out. Typical loser method.

OUT of there, before you get hurt again.

And I was not judging you on that fact.

Give her time. You sure she's checked it? Perhaps she just signed in to have a look, but was too busy to respond. Happens all the time.

Isnt this your fourth thread in 2 days?

Thats really good to hear - for both you AND me.

Stories like yours make me feel more positive about 'getting out of that rut'.

Best wishes!

Newo x

Oh no...*learns to love coffee*

Because he sounds like a bit of a jerk. Let the other girl suffer from him until she wises up.

I dream of Hello Kitty and monogamous missionary single penetration as approved by the Family Research Council for married couples wanting babies.

R...O...F...L!!!

We will not inform you of methods and opinions on such. Its inappropriate for ENA.

Life sucks. Why let it win.

Dont say that...I want bubbas when I grow up...*cries*

Just keep that one thing in mind: its all worth it in the end! x

I dont think theres much you can do about it. Some guys go grey young, others recede. No problem!

Drink tons of cranberry juice

My fiance made me do that. YUKKKKK. Havent had one for ages though *touch wood*

I guess people would call me narrow minded, but I cant imagine how anyone could find it pleasurable. The pressure of both would probably knock me out. But, whatever floats your boat...

Awwwww bless your heart! I really do feel for you. But like Hazey Amber said, its not harmful to the bubba.

Awwwh, thats a damn shame But understandable all the same. I would do exactly the same if I were stuck in your position.

Take care, yeah? Pop back if and when you can.

Regards,

Newo.

There WILL come a brighter day. Man, you're STILL so young!

The extent of my fiance's french is 'Bonjour, Merci, Au Revoir'...oh, and he learned, 'Je suis desolée' from myself...but I'm an A Level student and can also speak pretty fluent German. And the odd Italian phrase. Do I love him any less? Hell no, it makes him more adorable.

I'm depressed and suicidal now

Oi oi OI, hang on in there dude. You may not see it now, but you are SO much better off. I don't wanna have to slap you up for doing something stupid.

If you were a member of the opposite sex... would you date yourself?

Hell no. I know a bad seed when I see one.