Newo Ikkin

Similar to Eva, I would suggest he sees a doctor when he can. Don't worry him if you can help it but merely put it to him as a wise idea.

I think its more likely the pill than the iron tablets. However, more likely than the both of them put together its what CB said - plain old growth.

Keep taking the tablets and let your body develop naturally. I know from previous posts you say you have an issue you with your weight - just be proud of yourself. Let your body do its own thing whilst you're still growing. After that, you can sort things out if you still feel the need.

First off, welcome to ENA.

Angel, you CANNOT carry on living like this.

I like the letter idea - thats a sensitive and sensible way of approaching things. Can I ask what kind of things you write in these letters? What kind of attitude they're written in?

Is there anyone closer to home (barring mom and brother) who knows and you can talk to?

No hair = little boys. *shudders*

Purple and dreadlocked. ARGH DAMN THIS SILLY QUESTION. (no offense)

As I've said somewhere before - its not unhealthy, but its not necessary. As humans we can physically overcome pretty much everything - we just need the willpower to do so. I wont coo over your situation because I can see from the fact you've had the guts to post in here that you have your head screwed on. Just talk to us a little more.

I haven't had any experiences with porn addictions/addicts, but it sounds pretty black and white to me.

He proposed 10 months into us seeing each other. Still strong, very strong, 16 months on.

No quips, no doubts, no problems.

Its whatever tickles your fancy I guess.

I've taken a lot of time reading and thinking about all of this and would just like to offer my support in any way possible. With some extra hugs. You are never alone.

Newo

Its not silly of you - things like this play on ours minds for what seems like FOREVER. I just hope it works out for you either way.

Better still, do you trust him enough now to put this in the past? If not, its time to open up this wound once more and hear what he has to say for himself.

Wow, today I sound like a real Feminist.

Question him directly on his intention of adding these girls having known you may have found it quite offensive (as anybody sane would). If he pulls the 'we were on a break' card, he couldn't have thought that much of getting back together. Considering he was linked/SEXUALLY linked with these girls cries 'personal attention'.

yeah, thats kind of what i was trying to get at....so im not crazy for thinking...he tried to replace me so soon with girls from his past he knew would be there for him?

In cases like these, a leapord doesn't change his spots. I hope for your sake I'm wrong.

Has there been any out-of-Myspace contact that you know of?

IMHO - my INSTINCT - says he's playing a dirty game. I'm probably being all assumptuous, and many may argue with me on what I say, but it sounds as though he was breaking his own fall - and making it as comfortable as possible. Should he value your relationship, I apologise for what I'm saying. I personally don't see much value if he's as quick as that to befriend again. You've both done wrong, as you've admitted; but he is taking the piddle.

Myspace is one of the world's most evil creations. Something smells fishy with what he did. Call me old fashioned, but it just ain't right...

Here's my gift idea.

 

I'm single on valentines day so. . .

 

For Valentines day I'm going to give blood. I'm going give life to a random person whom I may never meet or know just for being a universal doner.

 

 

 

Kudos! That is such a sweet idea!

Just a night in with a home-cooked meal and a DVD. Old skool, but works a treat.

Ah, sorry for assuming.

Its a lot more difficult when they can't say what they want, lol!

Vary speed and grip. Thats about the only tip I can give you before I pass out from exhaustion...

Is the pain down to what you're doing to him? Perhaps some lube could come in handy (or some good ol' fashioned spit). Loosen the grip you have on him? Slow things down, and work them up?

As far as I'm concerned, your mouth shouldn't be hurting for long periods of time.

Someone correct me?

Cut your food into small pieces, and take it slowly. Don't be discouraged. I feel greatly for people who suffer with braces so if you need to talk or need advice, dont hesitate to PM me.

Thanks for the vote of confidence, Ash! *trots off happily*

I'm making a heart-shaped Chocolate Brownie cake and have got a couple of other cutie bits (partly self-made) to give him, but I always end up being the one that spends less. Sounds so materialistic, but it still makes me feel guilty.

and by then, I'll be in pain.

Amen, sister.

Ah, I feel horrible after reading some of these Looks like I'm a self-confessed skin-flint.

Depends on the mood I guess. I'm not a fan of forever, haha.