KTboo

My daughter is nearly one but she was never a big fan of water/baths when she was younger. In order to keep her calm i'd give her a rubber duck and just gently splash water onto her just to show that it is fun to be in the water.

Maybe you could plan something during the week then surprise him at the weekend? (every so often ofc) So when it comes to "what shall we do at the weekend" and he can't moan about it...or you could make plans with friends and you could enjoy you're together time with other people? Don't stick to routine because its boring. Everyone is stuck in a routine.

I think the only reason why i've done what I have is because of his mental control over me. I guess I am scared of him.

I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and together we have an 11-month-old little girl. At the start of the relationship everything was brilliant, we had arguments but we were always able to sort them out. Whilst I was pregnant he became really secretive. Wouldn't tell me where he was going or who he was with, even hiding his phone. Whenever I did get to go out with him, friends would come up to me and tell me stories and rumours of my boyfriend cheating or being flirty with other girls. I could never open up to him because he would just get really angry and blame it all on me or the insecurities in my head. Since our daughter was born things didn't get much better. He ran away every weekend, sometimes for 2 – 3 days at a time, leaving me holding the baby. Our arguments have ended us and then we've got back together again but the problem is whenever I go to talk to him about our problems he just shouts at me or gets very angry. He doesn't help me with my daughter. I have to "ask" for help, even though I have done this so many times yet nothing has changed. The whole situation has left me feeling rejected and very depressed. My friends won't speak to me anymore and I am too frightened to go back into "the group" I was in because I don't want to hear anymore rumours. Any suggestions?