Muzik
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i know and i thank you for your help. my friend saw that i was on this web page and he went and blabed it to her. he was telling her that all when i told her im happy we are friends and that "You’re right, I don’t think either of us have been happy and I can see why it’s ending. Of course I’d like to stay together and work on the problems, but there’s no point if it’s only me that wants it so I can see that this is for the best"(thank you majord23) was all from this page, she told him that "you" guys dont know her and how can u make a jugment on this realtionship....so i got in big trouble there. And im not gunna lie it did work. she told me that she felt horrible and that she doesnt know why i said that and that she wants me back...so im slowly getting there...thanks!
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You want your ex back? Things to avoid certain doom!
Muzik replied to SuperDave71's topic in Getting Back Together
hey i want to do that but, she tells me if i do that to her then she will never forgive me...what shoud i do? -
i say do LC at least cos NC isnt all that great it has its ups and downs. i mean im going through what u are, wether or not to do NC or friends. NC...if works (not all the time) realizes misses/needs you. or moves on adn your are just stuck there. so if you guys whre in love and that love is still with her/her(idk if your a guy/girl it doesnt say lol) then NC mit work...
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yeah i get what you mean. i just watn to talk to her soo badly and i don want to do the NC she wants to hang out. i mean she tells me she wants to be alone with me all the time and she likes being with me cos she can be herself we talk for like 8hours a day and never get sick of each other, i just watn her back so badly
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yeah...shes just ewverything i ever wanted. i know this is stupid and you are guna say thers other people out ther for you, but i dotn want anyone else and she wants to be with me too, shes just scared shes going to hurt me again and this her not getting back together with me
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i know she sounds like that but thts the thing out, its like she may be immature and clingy but i still love her and i still want to be with her. i DONT want to be with anyone else and im stupid for wanting to have her back but i cant live without her
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yeah ill do that. she teases me too much and i just get more adn more confused everyday. she wants to hang out 2mrrw and she told me she would wear her "sluty skit" and i said" cool" and she got pissed and would get in this mood adn only give one word answers. and i told her to stop and iasked whats wrong and shes said all u said was cool u didnt even play along...
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i mean backfire as she sees that she never needed me or wants nothing to do with me. she wants to be with me but is afraid she will hurt me thats the only problem right now. so i fig NC and she will learn that she really does need me or...what im afraid of, she moves on...
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yeah all fo you are right. i just dont want to hear it lol. i WANT to do the no contact, im just afraid it will back fire. hopefully it will work today would have been our 1 year, i guess im just really hurting right now, iv never felt like this about someone and i dont want it to be with someone else. i have had many other realtionships befor her and i havnt felt comfortable with them. with her i can be myself and i know that she hurts me but i always defend her. once she starts crying i give in, and i know when i talk to her adn tell her about the NC she will cry and i just dont know how to handle that...
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yeah i guess...i dont want to move on i want her back, but theres nothing i can do...thanks
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hah yeah she did dump me. thats the thing last night she told me that she DOESNT want to be with anyone ever again. she told me that she had a bad day and i asked why and she said i was thinking about "us" anf if i made the right decsion. i told her its out of my control i cant force her to be with me. no we go to diff schools.
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but i dont want her to hate me, i mean i want to be with her. shes calling me later tonight...just dont answer...i just feel horible that i would be doing that, just cause i know i would hate it if she did that to me...
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"you act like we are still going out.." "so...whats wrong with that" she tells me that she doesnt know how to act with me. she loves me and wants to be with me but she said she will hurt me again. last night she told me that everyday she wants to call me and tell me that she wants to get back together with me. i pour my heart out to her telling her "i want to be with you but i really do want you to be happy and if your not happy with me then dont bother" there are these two girls that like me, but i have told her i dont want them and i want just her. she gets so pissed when i talk to them even if its just "hey wutsup...oh nuthing just hanging out, and yourself" she asks and asks for my myspace password and i ask her why and shes said just to have it, and i told her BS and said truthfully why. "just to see what your saying" and i got a little mad and she said your right i trust you. like i said we are "broken up" and i said "what do u mean trust me?" "like if your talking about sexual stuff or flirting" of course im happy that shes like that cos its shows me she cares...right? im really confuesed constantly thinking if we will ever get back together, i really do want her back and would do anything to be with her, shes amazing and beautiful and i cant picture my life without her. i read a few of these post of the "NC"(no contact") i told her last night after she said she doesnt know how to act with me, that im just going to go away. she told me she would NEVER forgive me if i left her. I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO...please someone help me?