My wife and I will be married for 16 years them June and this last month she has told me about a one night stand that she had 13 years ago that may have resulted in the birth of my son. She also told me that she is going to go see an old boyfriend that she has never stopped loving and may not return home to me.
First of all the one night stand did not come as a great shock though it does hurt terribly and I know that my son is mine not his.
Second, I can understand her feelings about the boyfriend because things have not always gone the way I wanted them to and I have been a total jerk and * * * concentrating on work, home and the kids that I have neglected her and in many cases, to my greatest regret, have lost my since of mind and been abusive.
I know I can not take the abusive ness away but am committed to counseling, anyone know of a good online counselor by the way?
My question is, how can I keep my wife that I love more than life and convince her to come back home to me when she goes to see her old boyfriend?
I am desprite and can hardly eat or sleep worring about what I can do and what may happen. So I am preading for some adivce in this matter.