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I'm Asian and I've dated both Asian and Cacausaian men. I don't really think I have a preference on the race, it's just whoever's personality I'm attracted to the most. All of my girlfriends are Asian and most of them prefer to date Asian men.

I personally would be very offended by that request. If you want to burn the stuff from your own past relationships, that's fine. But it's not fair for your to ask your partner to do the same thing because he might not feel the same way as you. I keep the items from my past boyfriends not because I am still in love with them and can't let go, but it's because they were once a part of my life and I'd like to keep things for memory sake.

No, I wouldn't tell them unless they ask you specifically if you are also interviewing for another position within that company. In my past interviews I did have a few companies that asked me if I was interviewing else where and I've always told the truth, but I didn't tell them specifically what other companies I was interviewing for.

If I were you I'd just ask her straight out if she's dating anyone else, and if not, would she want to take your relationship a step higher. Maybe she's just waiting for you to take the intiative first. Go for it!!

It's def not too late to change your major. I don't think you're technically suppose to have your major declared until the end of your sophomore year. I did the exact same thing. Most of the times you would still be able to use of the credits you took for the previous major to the new one, unless you decide to major in something totally different. A lot of my friends ended up going back to school for something completely different after they have graduated and worked for a few years. They did that because they found out after graduation that they didn't really like what they were doing and things were different than they expected. So I would say to just stick to what you REALLY are interested in or else you might regret it later . . .

Why don't you just try to get to know the both of them first at the party and then decide?? Just make it really casual so that they don't get suspicious. Good luck!!

Yeah I'm the same way! I dread talking on the phone with my boyfriend sometimes because we run out of things to say somethings and then there's the awkward silence on the phone. Usually if you talk on the phone for the first time you're trying to learn stuff about each other. Like maybe you can ask him about his childhood, his career, family, college life back in the day, I dunno, anything. Usually we just talk about what we did for the day or if there are any exciting updates for that week . . .

If I'm not mistaken, don't they teach you a little bit of everything at beauty schools?? By that I mean they don't just teach you how to do nails, they also teach you how to give haircuts, facials, waxing, etc. Well at least that's what most of the people I've talked have done and they were able to get into different professions.

When I was in college I used to eat Kellogg's Special K cereal a lot in place of regular meals and I lost a lot of weight from that. I also ate a lot of fruit and those Lipton noodle and rice packets. They fill you up and they aren't too fattening. Sometimes I'll cook pasta with just regular tomato pasta sauce and instead of ground beef I'll use shrimp or grilled chicken.

Well do you considered yourself fit? i.e. toned, muscular? Because that makes a big difference. I have a friend who's about your height but she's not toned or muscular or anything, and she weighs about 130-something, but she's really skinny. If you have more muscile mass you might weigh more than that. I think a good healthy weight for someone your height is probably about 140+ lbs.

I've never been to one before so I'm interested to hear what other people's experiences are with them. How many times do you have to go in order to see the results?? Does it feel uncomfortable when you're laying in there? How much does it typically cost and finally, does it give you a natural looking tan or does it end up making you look like an orange?

I dun blame ya, if she said the same thing to me I would've felt insecure about the relationship too! She actually did you a favor by ending the relationship. You deserve someone better than that. Just be glad that it's over and that you can move on . . .

I think my first college roommate actually sent me a card before we moved in just to say hi and introduce herself. If I were you I'd prolly just send her an email with a short introduction about yourself.

Good luck though!! She turned out to be a nightmare! >

Maybe they're running a background check on you and that usually takes a while. I don't think you're "officially" hired until your background check has been cleared.

If I were you I'd not say anything about it unless they ask . . .

My friend's friend went on a date with someone off link removed that posted up fake pictures . . . be careful!!!

Whenever a girl tells you that "she needs space", it means that she's no longer interested in the relationship, and that she wants to start seeing other people. Plus she's only 21, so she probably doesn't wanna just settle down yet. If you didn't have any problems before this, and this was like a out of the blue thing, then I'd say that something fishy is going on. . . . sorry to be so blunt!

Is he into sports?? I've come to find that tickets to sporting events are always appreciated by the boyfriends

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My ex-bf broke up with me in Nov. because he thought we were two completely different people, and that he doesn't feel that special connection with me. It's true that we are into different things, but I always thought that when you are in a relationship, that you should make compromises with your partner. Anyways, because of our personal differences, he left it off with that he just can't picture me as the person that he'll eventually end up with, and it's probably a better idea that we just stop seeing each other (being that we're both in our late 20's already).

The breakup wasn't nasty, so we still maintained limited contact after the breakup. We also talked about keeping in touch as friends. Then at the beginning of this month, we met up and hung out with some friends for new years, one thing led to another, we ended up sleeping together. We had a talk afterwards and he decided that he missed me and wanted to get back with me. I questioned him about those things that made him want to break up with me, and I asked him why he changed his mind. He said that he has been doing a lot of thinking, and that he now realizes that I am type of girl would he can picture marrying. He then went on and listed all the qualities he like about me.

So now I am REALLY confused. When he broke up with me, he was so FIRM with his decision and I knew nothing I could've said or done would have changed his mind. So how can he change his mind so quickly? In the span of just two months? I suspected that he just missed having someone there and that he's just in denial telling himself that he's happy when he's with me when he's actually not. What do you guys think?? Has anyone ever done something similar to their ex???

Btw, we're still hanging out but we're not back together . . .

One of my friends has the same exact problem as you. She went out with this a-hole for almost 3 years and after him repeately cheating on her she finally decided to call it quits. The thing is that he won't stop calling her! And he always cries when he's on the phone and begs for her to get back with him. I think he's just trying to use tears to manipulate my friend and it's driving me crazy! I kept telling my friend to not pick not his phone call and to not listen to his bs but you know what, she still keeps on crawling back to him. The bottom line is, I don't think anything we tell you will make you stop doing what you're doing. You were in love with the girl once so it's not going to be that easy to let it go. Unfortunately you're just going have to learn this hard lesson on your ownYou have to choice to not pick up her phone calls, but you did it anyway. Why don't you just change your phone number? You know she's just using you and not really interested in getting back with you, so stop letting her walk all over you.

Sounds like u were more like her friend of convenience. Seriousy though, if I were you I wouldn't respond to her email. If she wants to make amends, let her make the effort to come to you first.

Maybe Y is jealous of Z because of X AND Z's past. Seriousy though, like Iceman said, if I know that one of them does't want me to be at the wedding, I'd prolly not want to show up.

lol I talk to myself sometimes too, especially when I'm out shopping for groceries or at the mall. I'll constantly remind myself on what I need to get and would just repeating that to myself. And sometimes when I shop for clothes I'd be like "hmmm should I get the pink one or the black one? I dunno . . . " It's as if I'm asking myself for my own opinion or something.

I would say it's the girl's fault. She took advantage of her freedom and took away his trust. She did that to herself and should not blame him for it. If I were the guy in your post I wouldn't trust the girl after that either! Trust is hard to earn back once it has been broken. The girl needs to proof to the guy that she's gonna change her ways from now on.