Insects Destroy

recently i've been browsing the forums, and i seem to be reading the samethings and going through the same myself. When starting a new relationship, it seems very hard not to see each other. Its good to see each other, but im thinking too much will lead to disaster as there wont be as much to chat about and it may feel a little boring. I'm thinking its good to have at least 2 days a week to yourself.mates.family. It also feels good as you get to miss them and look forward to seeing them when you have arranged.

..does anybody manage this? It is always so great when you first start dating and find out more and more about the other person, but eventually we soak up all their information. How do you, keep things moving?

I have been seeing a girl and we have been out to the pub for a date a few times, what other places are good to go on dates?

It has always been said, that talking about stuff helps. So im gonna blurb some stuff. Just over a year ago i was in a relationship with a girl, that last a few years. We split up on kind of mutual ground, but dont talk anymore (live in different towns and just didnt contact each other) Anyway, since then i've never really had a proper girlfriend. I've got close to a few girls but nothing has ever really come of it. I got thinking about this, and it seems now and by other posts within the forum that i spend more energy on worrying about if they like me, will it work out, will we go out and hit that dreaded silence!? When i was younger or when i met my ex i was with this didnt enter my head, i just let things happen. Now it seems to be some sort of chasing game of who should text first, email etc, is this technology moving in? Is there away of making the mind not to try and think about and analyze every text, or thing they say?

cheers for the comments, it does seem i was getting ahead of myself We have known each other for 6 years, and we have kind of flirted on and off since last year before she went away. I guess all i can do is see what happens in the future

thats a good post mate There is complications, i could of asked her out but she goes to USA tomorrow for 5 months so it would of been strange asking her out as such. Im in limbo now, she leaves tomorrow...we chatted breifly on msn and now im stuck on what to do Any advice? HELP!

Is this is a fine between these two? I have been socialising with a girl (you may have read my previous post, although she is going away) Some days i wont hear anything from her until i text, then she will either reply straight away or in the evening, it really confuses me as i dont ever know what to think. All the times we have met, she has been the one to suggest meeting up, and when we do meet i feel like we get on great! She admitted she liked me when she was drunk, but nothing has really been said since about it, i am really confused as to what she really thinks.

Just an update as its good to chat about things i feel. I met her last night at the pub, and it was real good chatting. I didnt realise we had as much in common, only small things like preferences on food, music, fears lol I didnt make a move, wish i did but i feel im holding back as she is going away and i dont wanna make it hard for both sides. I still unsure how she feels, she doesnt let alot out I was gonna text her when i got in, but just as i was about to text she had text me a joke text (winding each other up about mates, flirting with each other) Im waffling on, just to let you all know i had a good night and she has invited me to meet her abroad, so im gonna check flight tickets today. I also think i try to hard to interept watch she texts, maybe.

cheers for the reply, i guess im looking for a second opinion. (edited, and a spell checker) and that i think that she may have only put that cos she was drunk, but i suppose somethings come out easier when drunk :S Why cant women be easy to understand! Also with her going away that makes it hard for me to decide what to do, she has offered that i can go and stay with her in NY in the summer if i want. I think im blind, i put it in writing and realise that she does like me? i will have to wait till tomorrow night to see what happens! Wish my luck!

and what to do. I hope this post wont be too long to read, but i will try my best to explain. Im 25 and i like a girl who is 24. We have known each other for about 6 years now, and have been good friends and kept in touch ok i suppose. The girl i likes, travels a lot. She has only just got back from being abroad (about a month or so) I met up with her last year before she went abroad and when i was drunk i text her that i liked her, she didnt shrug it off and actually met me the next day for a drink. She then went away and we lost contact a little as she wasnt here. She is going away at the end of the week to USA to work till september, and we went out on Friday night and she got really drunk and so did i, nothing happened but when i got home to my house she text me asking why i didnt make a move, or offer to stay at hers; gutted! Anyway i phoned her when she text that and we was chatting for 2 hours on the phone about things, then carried on to text - as this was getting on for 5am! She text that she does like me and asked to meet for a drink this week, i think we shall be meeting tomorrow. I have a few concerns though, as since the Friday night she hasnt text much, but has said we can meet tomorrow night. When chatting to her on the phone she said she isnt very lovey-dovey and doesnt express how she feels towards people very well. My major concern is she is going to away, again! Im just confused as to what she wants, and how to act around her, as i really respect her friendship and dont wanna kind of step out of line or not progress and wish i did! Im guessing she does like me, i hope! She did say she did, but she was drunk.....ooo its so confusing, comments are much appreciated. Glad i found the forum Hope it doesnt sound like im waffling on, i guess my confusion shows in my post!