Texas48

My advice is "practice, practice, practice" Seriously tho, like segagirl said, whatever works for you. We each have our own special way. Dont worry about it, just enjoy. Tex

Hello Nigel Take it from an old guy,(48) if thinking about feet and shoes is the ONLY way you can get excited, then yes you my have a problem. If you just think about it every now and then, dont worry. When I was your age I thought about all kinds of stuff. Some people like big breast, some like long legs, long hair,short, tall, big, small..etc.... When mastubating, its not uncommon for all sorts of thoughts to go through your head. I still think about all sorts of things. I think you just happen to be turned on by womens feet. Thats ok because women like that. I dont think you have ANYTHING to worry about. Your normal..... Tex

Hi, It is very normal. My wife loves to watch me. A lot of girls want to watch a guy, but are too afraid to ask. Texas48

Been married for 25 years so I'm in the same boat. I think alot of it comes from the fact that they know they can have sex anytime they want it, thereforeeeeeee they dont have a desire for it. When I was a kid one of my dreams was to grow up so I would have money to buy an icecream cone ANYTIME I wanted one. After I was old enough to have an ice cream anytime I wanted it, the desire was gone and I didnt want one very often. Women think if they "give it up" once a month you should be grateful to them. If you leave her, she will lose weight, fix herself up, and start banging the next guy she gets interested in. Giving him all the sex he wants. It never fails. Texas48

Either alone or with someone........ Texas48

My wife loves to watch me and I love to be watched. We also enjoy mutual sessions watching each other. Texas48

Masturbation can deplete some of your body chemicals. This is not a big problem for younger guys as much as it is for older men. As long as you are not causing soreness(except maybe your arm..lol) I wouldnt worry about too much jerking.... Texas48

Well I am a lot older than most of you,(48) and it takes me about 10-15 mins. Sometimes longer sometimes quicker. It all depends on how horny and hot you are. Texas48