amelia

Hi ya..I kinda understand what you mean. I have been with my current boyfriend for about 2 months. Before we started our relationship we were really close friends for 7 months. In that 7 months i told him that i was a virgin. SO he knew that when we got together i was. I had done everything else with other blokes but not the 'BIG thing' yet. We would do foreplay etc...and it would feel so right but it would always be my bf to start this as i never knew how to start and sort of felt frightened! BUt when you get going everything is right and your feelings take over and lead the way...but when he said 'shall i penetrate'? I wanted for him to coz i felt ready, but just as he was gonna i would freeze up and hesitate. After time, a couple of weeks or so, we kept getting in this same situation and because i was feeling more relaxed with him, i felt more ready than ever and let him go all the way It was the best experience ever. Are you worried about anything which may make you have a fear of having sex? Do u love you're partner enough to make love to him? Your partner should understand your situation from your point of view if he loves ya and take sex etc at your speed. Even though you may feel you want sex, you're obviously not emotionally ready to do it yet. There should be no fear, when you feel relaxed with that bloke sex just happens naturally. Talk it over with your bloke. If you both care for eachother you should be able to talk this over and come to a conclusion! Good luck!

I have only been with my guy for about 2 months. Sometimes after loads of sex i feel really knackered but he still feels really really horny. So i just mucked about and said 'go on, toss yourself off, i'd love to see it' Honestly though, ive always had this fantasy to watch a bloke do it coz they go on about it constantly. He did look at me weird at first and said 'well you're here so why am i gonna wanna do it to myself' I just said that i really would love it. He did and it really did start making me feel horn again. It was really good...is this normal though...please give me your opinions,blokes and girls! thanx ...

personally i dont think age is an issue when it comes to loving someone. I'm 16 and at this present moment i feel like i have found MR Right. I know that he may not be, but at this present moment i'm enjoying what he has bought to me. He is a big part of my life and i know i'm only 16 but it doesnt matter. He's sooo caring,genuine, he puts himself out for me and i love every part of him. He has gripped a big part of my heart. I think love comes with maturity though.My boyfriend really means the world to me. You will find someone that will love you for you. But u cant look for him, i'm afraid i believe that love appears when you least expect it! But when you do find someone that makes you feel special inside, you will definitely know, because its a feeling like no other. When you cant stop thinking about them, you cant be without them. Its a great feeling and i'm sure you will experience it soon, trust me!

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months and i love him to pieces. He treats me right, he culdnt do no more for me etc..and i dont know where i would be without him. Before i got with this guy, i sorta started getting with another guy who is 6 years older than me. I see this otha guy often and last night i emailed him saying 'i love my bf to bits but deep down i still have very very small feelings for you, but no1 comes close to stu (my current bf) SO have i dont the right thing by telling this guy? I'm sooo paranoid and worried that stu will find out i wrote this email to this guy. But, they dont even know eachother....please help, thanx

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months but before we started the relationship we knew eachother for 7 months.The relationship is going extremely well. I have had boyfriends in the past but none of them have been how stuart treats me. Stuart is different. He puts himself out for me, hes genuine and i know that he's loving me for me. Its just recently i cant stop crying at the fact that it would kill me if he ever let go and split with me.I was crying yesterday when i was with him explaining that i have never felt the way that he makes me feel. Sex is becoming more meaningful now and i have never felt this way about a bloke before. I keep telling myself it is love and i know it is! It has to be. Why is the fact that i like him sooo much, is making me feel sooo upset, can you help?