joseph_hope

Yes I've found she is inconsiderate. I haven't called her since and do not plan on calling. I am going to drop her. It really sucks though becuase if she was interested I wish she would show it somehow because I would love to hook up with her.

So right after I post I get a call from her, a day later then when she told me she was going to call. I find out she was out with family last night, so I feel alittle better about myself. I hear someone in the background calling for her so she says "I'll call you back alright"? I say "sure, no problem" I waited for about 20 minutes and then left the house for about 5 minutes. I come back and my sister said she missed a call while she was cooking. It could have been anybody as the phone was ringing alot tonight.... friends, family and a good chance itwas not even for me. I get all anxious and assume it was this girl. I call back her house and her cell phone with no answer . It has been a long time and I still have not heard from her. Someone shake me and tell me to smarten up. I am way too nice. ](*,)

Hi this has always been something that bothers me. Mostly is because I usually always call when I say I am going to call. I am trying to get ride of "the nice guy" and letting girls walk all over me. What would you do when they say they are going to call and then don't? Should you : just say forget them and not call back, call and give them hell, or call back and be that nice guy. This just recently happened to me and I was pretty pissed off she never called when she said she was going to. To be honest I will not be happy unless she calls and apologizes because I know thats what I would do.

Thanks, that's what I was thinking too. I notised that everytime I back off and do my own things for alittle she contacts me. Sometimes it seems she is more interested also. I heard about "nice guys finish last" but if I turn cold won't that let a opportunity pass by?

Hi, I am hooked on someone and I am not sure if they feel the same way back. In fact I think she knows I like her and she just isn't sure what she wants or she is just taking it for granted. I don't want to feel this way especially if nothing is going to happen. Do you suggest I stop calling them and just move on. I mean we've been talking for quite awhile now and nothing has happened. We have never told each other that we like each other or talked about hooking up but we talk almost everyday and make excuses to get together. But it seems like I am making most of the effort to get to know her better and it seems as though she couldn't care less what happened but I really don't know. Feelings are usually right though. Tonight is a perfect example. She told me she would call after work if she wanted to share a ride tomorrow and when she didn't call by 10 I got all depressed and ended up calling her. I think I need to just move on.

I know I have to stop smoking. Today is day 1. People have already called to hang out and I just did not answer. I just went for a run instead, and that really felt good. I am going to just say no and see how long I can last. I will let you know. I seen pictures today from when I was younger. I looks now like I just lost my "glow" if you know what I mean. I stay up way to late and eat at the wrong times. I cannot just jump back into being an A student. I think if I quit the weed my motivation will slowly come back and same with my social skills. I used to be able to talk to any girl at anytime and now I feel awkward even around my parents. I'm trying to make a real change.

I gstylez07, I tried to send a private msg to you but it didnt work. I am going to try to change my life around. It is going to be hard but if you have any ideas please share them with me. Thank you all for the support.

Hi, I need to just talk... It will feel better to get my story off my chest. I had to make a new account because of embarrassment. I am 20 years old. Growing up I was always the popular guy with no problems. I had many many friends, which I still do. I was one of the top students and top athletes in my small town. I had no trouble with girls either. They always loved me. I have faced alot of disappointments in the past few years. I gave up on sports which I always excelled at. I was let down very hard a couple times (getting cut by teams and not meeting my goals) and I just gave up. I'm barely getting by in school now. I have no motivation to do well. My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me last summer and I just stopped thinking about her now. Now my life just seems to be passing by. I hang out with losers. They are my best friends and I would do anything for them but they do not have any purpose in life . We smoke weed on a daily basis and now I cannot even hold a normal conversation. I do not care what people say, the weed has changed my personality so much. I think now I have a social problem and always feel uncomfortable around people. I even hate the way my appearance is now. I feel as though people are always judging me and looking at my imperfections. I cant get away from the weed and now I have no motivation either. I don't even know why I do it? I guess it is a easy out from my real problems and I do enjoy wasting time with my friends. Recently I have experimented with other drugs. I can't believe I did it either. I do not know what has happened. A few years ago I was the ideal kid every parent wanted. Now it seems my parents (I know they still love me) but are even disappointed in me. I just keep getting kicked like a sad dog and I am never getting up. I cannot even get a girlfriend now even though many are attracted to me. After being hurt so much by my last girlfriend (left me for someone else) I can't tell anyone how I feel about them. I lack so much confidence. I meet amazing girls but I get attached so quick and rely on the girl for happiness. This is probably why they all end up losing interest in me. This last girl is everything I ever wanted but I lack so much confidence and I keep chasing after her that I believe that she has no interest in me anymore. I also am the nicest guy and treat girls like gold. This may also be a key to my problems and why my last girlfriend played me. It pisses me off because I was raised to treat others how you want to get treated. I just feel so terrible right now. I just needed to write.