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Men: How do you truly feel about the "other woman"?
senoritass replied to senoritass's topic in Infidelity
I never had sex with my "other guy" (yes, it's the truth) and there was and still is a connection between us. We are trying the "just friends" thing, and I really hope that we can because I don't want to lose the friendship...I know, I should have thought about that first...Thanks for your response. This makes much sense to me! -
I was involved with a married man, and it only lasted a short time and but I did have strong feelings for him. Don't think it was love, but there were some very deep emotions developing on my part. And still I never planned, or ever even thought to leave my husband. I've seen a lot of posts telling women that "he doesn't love you if he is still with his wife" and I do think that is the case most of the time...I know that it is so much more complicated than that! Not trying to make excuses, or at all do I think this is not wrong, but I know! so just wanted to hear what the men have to say?
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thanks again. I have actually been trying to get out of this rut in my marriage and do seem to be the only one doing all of the work for this. He works late a lot and six days a week. I usually go out with co-workers or friends without him. maybe that's how i ended up in this mess?? I don't want for him to quit his job, but I am without him most of the time. Other couples work busy schedules, so is this really the problem?
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That would be great, I do want to rekindle things with my husband because he is the reason that I never took this any further...I still love him very much. I am now afraid of what will happen at work and with our mutual friends. I don't think that he would want to hurt me, but could easily damage my reputation. I have a great job and friends and now made to feel uncomfortable around the office and them - I guess that I just have to live with that now
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I WON'T CAVE! Thanks!
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Thanks. We were friends and so there were some feelings involved and makes it much harder. It's not that easy, but I am working on it!
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This is just wrong on so many levels! I am married and started having a relationship with another married co-worker about 6 months ago. We also share the same friends and know each others families. We never had sex but came very close once while out of town on business (much alcohol involved, but not enough - LOL). After that, we talked/text msg/chat/flirt a lot more than usual but then a few weeks ago, we ended up in a really intimate kiss which just caused so much confusion. Then the other day, he asked me about my feelings and where this was going. He wanted to have sex and wanted to make sure that there were no strings attached. WHAT WOULD THAT MAKE ME???? I enjoyed his company and was really hurt that he would treat me like that. We both agreed that it would be best to stop talk/text msg/chat/flirt, but now he avoids me and seems like he is mad at ME? Just so hard to understand what happened. Can you be friends after a close sexual encounter, that was actually just a mistake? Is this just normal rejection behavior? If so, how can I tell? Bigger Question - Why do I care?