crimsonstorm

a vagina is not supposed to smell like anything but a vagina. its simply that straightforward. if you are clean (as you said you are) and you don't have an imbalence, then he should get over it. its not supposed to smell like apples or strawberries cause its not. ITS A VAGINA. as for breath, ask someone else, like your little brother. someone who will not care if they hurt your feelings or not, but will be honest because it will help you. If its bad, then do what the other people said. i get ticked off when guys complain about the smell... or at least when they aren't thoughtful about how they go about it. they don't exactly smell like a fresh rain all the time either.

do not worry at all. a lot of guys at your age are like that. and even if it doesn't grow, its not the size its how you use it. really. i had a boyfriend who was that size almost exactly, but he was amazing in bed... the best i had ever had. which i hadn't had a lot, but still. i agree, it will be a-ok. crimson

hello... i have a bf and we have dated off and on for a year and a half. i hurt him by kissing another guy about 6 months into it, and it has been off and on since then. We have always been in love, and no matter what we do we always seem to drift back towards each other. we decided to give it another chance, in a serious way. things are going wonderful... but i feel a bit sad about somthing. at the beginning, he said that he didn't want to say "i love you" because everytime he does somthing bad happens.We always used to be very open about it, but things have changed and i understand that. but this is a bit hard for me to handle because he is just not an affectionate person, and sometimes i just need the reasurance. i feel like if you love someone you should tell them! and i can't tell him because he said that he wouldn't say it back and i don't want to put him in an uncomfortable situation. ive brought it up about 3 times and everytime he just says that i should just leave some things alone and see how they turn out. so im leaving them alone... but you know when you get that wonderful feeling and you just want to squeeze them and say "i love you"? i sit there feeling like im going to burst. gah. please any advice? crimson

hello.... this is my first topic so sorry if i dont' do things correctly. here is the problem, sorry if its long, but i think you need a bit of background: i am going out with a boy named christian. we have been dating for 2 months. we dated about a year ago and had a very serious, very close relationship. we were each other's first true love. then, i messed things up by kissing another boy. christian and i were still friends after the initial pain of everything. we've always been best friends. recently, i found out he had feelings for me still, which i was really happy because i have never gotten over him. everyone that i dated after him was subconsciously to cover up the feelings for him. So i told him how i felt, and we are back together.but i am really confused. im so happy to have the chance to be with him again, and i have grown up and changed quite a bit since our first experience. but christian is different... we are still in love and have acknowlaged it at the beginning, but he says he doesn't want to say it. i didn't really like that because i express myself very openly and didn't want to be kept quiet about that. but i went right along with it, hoping we could just express ourselves in other ways... actions speak louder than words,right? so i kiss him, hug him, hold him when he's upset.. everything. during the first week we kissed, cuddled, made out, held hands, all that stuff. we dont' do other stuff tho cause we decided to wait on everything else. but now, he rarely returns these gestures. i don't know what to think. he rarely hugs me, holds my hand sometimes, almost never cuddles with me (we can be laying in the same bed, him laying on his back with his arms crossed and me practically throwing myself at him just for some cuddling!!!), and the only time i get kisses is when he's leaving or i am. he's never been a really affectionate person but come on! i need some reasurance that he cares... sometimes it's like we are just friends. but i've asked him if he still loves me and he says yes. so i have no idea what is going on. also, he seems more interested in hanging out with his friends with me. i don't mind sharing him , but it's more of they are sharing him with me. things have all flipped around. does anyone have any advice? i am so lost and confused, i really have no idea what to do. please help me out....