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Hey,thanks for all your advice. I well, *didnt* really listen to them thought. I hang out with her the whole week. I spent most of the day with her, we went to the theater, restaurant and other things. I had planned on talking about what happened later in the week but really I forgot about it. Until SHE decided for the first time to talk about it to me. Granted it was short but she said that she had heard my apologizes and that she forgave me. She still wants me to be part of her life as a great friend and so do I. I am happy with the whole week I spent with her and I think I can say that ive learned a lesson out of this. I dont want to loose this friend and I will find love elsewhere I guess. After it had happened I felt really bad and writing here helped me get the pain I was feeling out. I think just writing about it here allowed me to work a way out of this. Thank you.

Yes I did. I realized it was a mistake and don't know if I should try again explaining it to her. It just feels weird that as I said, when I brought that up she stop talking and said nothing. After a minute or so of silence we got back to what we were talking. And while I feel she is more distant, we still hang out together. Its like she was trying to do has if nothing happened, thought it obviously affected her.

Hey, I did something that I wish I had never did right after it was done to a really close female friend of mine. Since then, I can see that she is not the same with me. We do not hang out as often with only the two of us. When we talk I can see in her eyes she isnt like she used to be with me. Like, before I could put my hand on her shoulder and it was alright. Last night, I reached out to pick something really close to her leg and she jumped back...If I had done that before she would have stayed there and my hand could have touch her leg and it would have been ok. I have tried to talk about what happened with her one time. I wanted to tell her how sorry I was. I started talking but as soon she figured what I was talking about she closed herself, blushed and didnt say a word. I said I was sorry but seeing no reaction I quickly stopped talking about it. What can I do to redeem myself ? How can I get our relation ( friendship ) to what it use to be ? I just can't stand it has it is right now... I am still seeing her almost on a daily basis. I am wondering if I should trying talking again about what happened. Get her to talk to me about it,maybe tell me how much she hated me for doing it or something. I just want to get over what happened and make her understand that she doesnt have to be scared of me. I want to be her friend again. Thanks.

So your saying that if a women considers you as a friend, she is never ever gonna change her mind and date you ?

Hello, I will make this quick...My sex and age can be seen on my profile. Basically, I have been hanging out with my best friend and his girlfriend for quite a while. Like, every day I am either with him, his girlfriend or both. The problem is...I have fallen in love with her. I know she likes me too but pretty much only as a ''really good friend'' but nothing more. And she also happens to be the lover of him, a guy whos been my buddy since our childrenhood... I just can't get her out of my head. What the hell am I supposed to do ? It hurts me when I'm with her since I would like to be more than a friend to her. So you might suggest getting away from her. Problem is they are my best friends and it hurts me even more when I'm not with them/her... What do you think of this ? Ah life... P.S. ( sorry for my poor spelling or word usage, english is my second language and while I understand it greatly I don't write that often ). Thanks.

Last time I cried was 5 years ago when my grand-father died. Since then, lots of events happened where a normal person would have cried. My grand-mother died 3 years ago, I had no reaction other then being confused for a couple of minutes. My cat died today, I had spent my teenage years with him, he was only 6 years old. It didnt bring a single tear to my eyes. Same thing again, I was confused for 1-2 mins and thats all, no emotions came out of me... Is this normal ? Thanks.

Hello, I've been spending a lot of time with one of my old ( old as in, ive known since we were young kids ) male friend for the past 2 years. He has had the same gf for 2 years and a half now and they seems really in love and like they will be together for quite some time. Since I met her, his gf, we became really good friends. Like when I go to my friend home now I talk more to his gf than to him . I posted in the Relationship Conflicts forums, but actually im the one confused on something that happened. Dont know if this is the right forum to be on . I don't think there is anything between me and his gf and dont think there will ever be. I just had a flashback thinking about something that happened some night, a couple of weeks ago. I was at his place with only the three of us. After some drinks while playing cards and talking we did some ''stip poker''. Me and him ended up with no shirt and no pants ( only with boxers on ) and stayed like that for like the rest of the night. She later took off her cloth too, stayed in underwear for like 5 seconds then quickly pulled her cloths back on. Then she ask both of us to close our eyes. She then removed both of our underwears so we were both totally naked. After a while, she said we could open our eyes and we both put our cloths back on... What should I understand from this ? Why would she get me undressed like that with her bf ? Ive spent a lot of time with them after that night and no one evered mention what had happens since then. Thanks