westernrider46

Alright, Thanks so much for your help!

I'm basically worried out of my mind .. It's kind of hard to overlook..haha.. I keep poking it.. I guess I'm overly-paranoid it's going to get bigger.. (So far it hasn't.)

Yeah.. I went to this other website, it was where Doctors answer your messages, and this one other person had the same thing I did. Same spot, same side, felt the same; and the doctor said there's alot of glands or a lymph node or something like that around there. I don't know.. it's worrying me half to death! Safe to say, it hasn't grown any since It popped up. And he also included that cancer usually has other symptoms like bone aches, chronic fatigue, etc. And I've had none of that.

Okay, I have discovered a small hardish lump in the back of my neck. I would have to say it sort of on the left side but if you drew a symmetrical (sp) line from the top of my head to the bottom of my neck, it would be on the left side. (Hopefully that makes since.) And it's right at my hairline. Two days ago I had a fever of 102.2. That was when I discovered my lump. But that was all, I guess my body was fighting off a germ, (Cold;Flu, ect I guess...) But, The next day My temperature went back to normal, (98.3) So obviously my body had succeeded in fighting off the germ. *shrugs*. But see, what's also weird is I've been getting small bumps. Like bug bites all over me. This is probably not related, (We think it's the tank top I last wore, it had blue dye and I've been known to be allergic to some dyes...) But anyways. I'm not sure what this lump could be. the lump isn't that big at all. It's not like I can pick it up and roll it around in my fingers or anything, I mean I suppose it's round. The area a little ways above it is quite tender. Which I know is a gland. Yesterday the lump was very sore if I touched it. But today it is not anywhere near as sore as it was. I hope it doesn't get bigger if I keep poking and prodding it.. because it's really hard not to. I'm just worried to death it's cancer or something very serious. I had a swollen lymph node down in my pelvic area once, except that one was quite big but it went away. I've had swollen lymph nodes before but I would just like to know what this may be.. Any suggestions? Thanks

Thank you so much... You've been a big help. I'll try to do exactly what you said. But I mean.. I don't think he gets that he actually HURT me when he blew me off for a TV show.. and didn't call. That didn't go too well... One thing that happened. Last night, I asked him straight up, "Are you seriously liking me here? I just really want to know before I get too caught up in you and you don't love me or anything" And it went into a big discussion, and this guy, he's tough you know. He's not one to cry, even whimper. And I heard that boy CRYING. It was a quiet cry, he didn't want me to know, but I heard. I asked him why. He said, "Just because my own gf doens't think I love her" I don't know what to think (?)

Okay well. I have this problem. It's kind of hard to explain so please stay with me. Anyways, My boyfriend has a weird way of showing affection. I mean at sometimes when he's feeling a little soft, he'll tell me how much he loves me and all that jazz. And of course then I really seem to believe him. But then... sometimes it seems like he could care less. And when I GET those feelings that he could care less, I ask him, if he really loves me. He starts saying "I love you more than -anything- please believe me!" And all of that, you know what I mean. But like tonight. I called him at 8:30, which is when he wanted me to. And I was really looking forward to talking to him, because I really --really-- think alot of him. And I got this reply, "Well how about I call you back later, I'm watching a special on Muscle cars." and I'm thinkin -Um. Jee thanks.- I didnt say that though, I just said "Oh..Ok" And of course, it's been almost 3 hours and he hasn't called. Idk if I'm overreacting, or something, but seriously I need to know what to do here. Any advice accepted... thanks

Is it possible to get pregnant from Oral Sex? (I've never had it) But I've just always wondered.. you know

Okay I know this might seem really stupid to post, but I first started my period ABOUT a year ago, and I havn't had it in about a month. It may seem stupid but i'm getting a little worried. I have to admit I'm a big worrywart. I'm a virgin so I can't be pregnant.. and I've heard for maybe a year or two your period may skip some months but still I'm just getting worried...