jenyb

My sister tried depo and she had a lot of problems with it. She told me not to use it. I take birth control- ortho-tri-lo-I think it has a lower dosage of hormones. My boyfriend and I also use condoms..every time. I wouldnt feel safe just using condoms.

Thats all good advice. Thankyou I do need to listen to my intuition. But also I think going out with him and his friends is a good idea because we both still have separate groups of friends. His friends are so different then mine. His are into sports and beer and my friends are into...well, anything but sports.

I believe you are right. I was thinking my jealousy was because I really have strong feelings for him.

Not a date, I mean it should lead to him to taking the next step.

I would tell him how you feel and then that should lead to him asking you on a date.

Marriage scares me because Im afraid to be tied so close to someone. Im scared that it may add stress,as well as make me a little nutty, to my life because Im already worrying about little things; like what is going on during those business trips of his.

Hello! I have been in relationship for 1 1/2 years. This relationship could end up into marriage. I have a really big fear of marriage. We have a great time together but for the last six months I have been insecure in the relationship and this led to feelings of jealousy. My boyfriend is very sociable and has a lot of friends. Guys and girls. He also travels a bit for work and I keep thinking hes doing something behind my back. Is this a sign I shouldnt get married? Has any of you ever felt this way and if you have how do I stop this way of thinking? Jen