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well it ends up being that she has a very weird attitude and that is the way she is, we are back together and i did exactly what you said about not giving her the opportunity of enjoying her rudeness towards me. I acted like if nothing bothered me when we talked on the phone and today she called me telling me that she was ready to work things out and that she loved me so i hope everything goes better from here on out.

thanks keep em coming

Well I am 20 and she is 17 but she is very mature for her age, before we broke up I would see her allot and we would go out, hang out at her house, etc. But now that we have broken up i tried not to talk to her anymore but i realised I just wanted to be with her, she was acting very cold with me at first because I was the one that had broken up with her because of our past problems. It had now been a month and she tells me that she cant be without me and loves me, but what confused me is that I talk to her on the phone and ask her what she wants from me, "because I didnt know if she just wanted to talk to me so that she could get over it or if she wanted to get back with me. She told me that "she didnt say that she did not want to get back with me" but that she didnt want to stop talking to me because, "me being appart from her made her feel as if she was loosing the feelings she had for me." Oh and we also talk almost every day so I'm thinking that I should not call her as much so we can have more things to talk about when we do talk on the phone or in person?

I have encountered a problem, I have noticed that when I talk to my ex (we are trying to work things out), she says that she wants to get back with me but not right now.... I tell her that im confused because she kissed me and then when I talk to her on the phone she acts like if she doesnt want to talk to me. For example I am telling her about my day and when I finish telling her she responds in a sarcastic way "I guess" to be more exact, or she will mix it up once in a while for example "sure" or "whatever." Things like that bother me at times, I know that she loves me and wants to work things out because her actions speak more than her words, but what would be the best way to work around the attitude that she shows me that I really dont like? I try to talk about her interests and she doesnt want to tell me about her day or acts in a very cut off way, but then there are days that she is very talkative and I am too. Who can help me with this situation? What does it mean?

Thank you for your comments, I hope that everything works out and I have started to notice that I can show her that I love her in different ways. For example calling her while shes at work asking if she wants me to take her something to eat when she gets her break etc. I guess the main thing that was bothering me is not being with her right now and not being able to show her how much I care. But we did go to the library yesterday and I had a really good time, lol I told her that I never knew you could have so much fun in the library, just being with her made it all that much better. If anyone has any more ideas on how to show someone you care for them without saying it please tell me, im learning as I go.

Well the reason for this post is that i need some advice, I am the type of person that would like to say I love you to my girlfriend every chance I could get, we ended up having some problems and we broke up. We gave each other about a month of time and now she is talking to me again telling me she loves me and that part of her wants to be with me and part of her doesnt. She says that love is more than words, and what hurt her the most is that I would question her love for me allot, I didnt question it because I didnt trust her but because I just liked to hear her say it. It is just the type of person I am, I guess but now we want things to work out but I am not sure how I can show her more than words. We started to see each other once in a while but mainly what im asking is for advice on how to fix things again. I know she loves me and I love her too, it think that she just has to learn to trust my love again like before.

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Please help me to figure out a way to let go of someone i love. Well it all started off as me meeting my sisters friend, we talked and started liking each other, I soon came to find out that she had feelings for another girl in the past and i could never get over that. The thing is that she plays basketball and during summer vacation she stopped seing Olga and became my girlfriend. At first i trusted her but there was always something in my head tearing me up, making me feel like if she was going to do something with her because she would call me up to tell me she was going out with the girls and so on. Well i fell in love with her after 3 months, just yesterday she called me up after work to tell me she was going out with the girls. She left her house at 9PM and she said she would call me when she got home. It was 12 and she still hadnt called me, here is where i made the worst mistake of my life. I called her anonymously from my cell phone to see where she was. when she would answer i would just stay quiet and not say anything, i guess she caught on that it was me so the next time i called her private she answered and said look babe they keep calling, and she passed the phone to some guy, (who was her cousin) so i hang up and call her back in 2 minutes. She asks me if i was the one calling her private and i say no. She calls like at 1:30 in the morning and is talking to my sister, i didnt know it was her, and my sister comes to my room to use the computer and i start telling my sister what I had done. She then calls me and tells me why i had lied to her and i asked her to forgive me but she wont. All the jelousy started because of what i knew about her and the basketball girls before and now i cant get over her. Please help me this is killing me inside.