Nessa

Im 17 about to turn 18 and I can vouge for the fact that for the guys (even though Im a girl) that are my age have just about one thing on their mind, at least for the majority of guys I know. When your my age, your not really looking to settle down, its suppose to be the time of your life, go out, have fun, party, and have sex. Thats simply what this world has come to for us in our later teen years. I suggest that you take a chance to get to know him, figure out what his real age is, and make him ask for your number. If you give your number to him without asking, that may make you appear to be rather easy in his eyes, depending on what kind of a guy he is. He may look at that number as an easy booty call, will call you, ask you out on a date, try to do something with you and if your not willing, you wont hear from him again. Just be careful...especially with the small age gap as well....the law comes into play eventually.

Well you said that in the beginning of your relationship that you both were intimate quite often. Perhaps she feels that your relationship was based solely upon sex? I don't know what goes on between you two out of the bedroom but I do know from personal expierance that a lot of my own personal relationships jump started to quickly and became surrounded by sex, sex, and more sex...eventually with me breaking it off with them and telling them that we need to hang out more often rather than just hang out for the day, with the expectancy of sex later on that night. Talk to her about it, there may be something else going on as well. She may be having problems in another area of her life which just make her emotionally drain and simply not in the mood.

I can, in a way, relate to you on this. I have a very large and extended family, most of my siblings are step and not blood related. There is one step-brother inpaticular that I am very close to (not intimately do not get me wrong). Many Many people have told me that me and Ian (my step brother) should date, that we were made for each other, my brother and I are like best-friends, we know each other like a book. Although My Brother and I do not have a relationship like that, whenever someone tells us that, we laugh and just simply say "Thats my Brother...or Thats my Sister...no way." Your best thing to do is to sit down with Tyler and tell him that you grew up together, that you look at him as your brother whether blood or not, and that you do not think it is possible for you to ever consider a relationship other than sibling wise with him.

My last period was June 15th so I should be getting it within the next 48 hrs...though no signs of it yet.

I've always been very nervous about getting pregnant as my sexual life is rather active and thereforeeee I've always used the contraceptives to prevent it. I am currently on birth control and my partner did use a condem but the issue came when the condem broke. We did not realize it broke until after we were finished of course but now I am in a panic. It just so happens, by coincidence that I had missed my pill for that day (I left them at home, forgot to slip them in my purse). I had stayed out for that day and did not realize I did not have them with me...usually I'm very good about that. It's been about 3 weeks now since me and him were together or at least since the condem broke and i missed my one pill. Although I've noticed odd things going on with me as of late. I have been getting frequent headaches, I have been peeing quite frequently, and I have a very odd discharge that I am not used to getting, and my appetite has increased. I realize that every female has discharge but it's more of a clear discharge, not like the creamy white discharge that I girl has during ovulation (by what I understand that is why a female has discharge). I haven't gone to get a pregnancy test as I'm not sure if the signs I've been getting lately are even for pregnany, perhaps stress though Im not under much stress at this time in my life. I spoke to my Mother about this and she said that it is kind of weird for me to be showing symptons this early for pregnancy...Im not exactly sure when EXACTLY a woman starts showing signs. So if anyone could help me out here, suggest whether or not to worry over this or whatever...I dont know what Im asking, Im just very concerned that I may be.