Hello all, thank you for your responses in advance.
Two and a half years ago my wife revealed that she is gay, since that time she has been in two other relationships. I am not a part of them or any sexual relationship with her, but feel I should stay married for stability for the kids (3 and 9)
I recently started dating, my wife quickly informed me that I better not have sex, although she has with each of her two girl friends, we even had her first girlfriend as a roomate for 8 months, they were in one room and I was in another, prior to that they were in an apartment together for six months.
My real question is about the kids, my present love interest is sick of the drama, but I feel that I need to do what is best for my kids. Everything I read talks about how it is better to have both parents in the same household. My wife and I are great friends, always have been, but am I showing the kids "how to" or "how not to" have a healthly relationship.
Please help, I feel like I need to make a final decision soon, one way or the other, and just have to be happy with my decision and get on with living, the decision, to me, feels like I am having to chose between my own happiness and my children's happpiness.