marknatlgausa

NC rule is No contact. Yeah she is a flake. But so am I for dating her. We live and we learn.

Well she called me today and I did ask her. She was with her new boyfriend at the time and she says she does not remember saying it. Of course, I asked her why she said it and she said in a kinda whiny tone of voice I don't know. She seems to be having a lot of new fun with this guy so I dont really have any hopes that she will come back. I am not going to enforce the NC rule b/c I dont think it is for everybody. It depends on the person. I know what I have to do to get over this girl. Such as having fun my self. However, I know I am not going to if I analyze things she says when in a drunken stuper. So, I guess I am just not going to analyze it any more. If she continues to do it I will just brush it off that she is confused and I don't need to be with a confused person.

Or it could be just game playing. I'd rather not ask her sober. I am going to just let things fall as they fall. She calls me a lot, but we never hang out b/c she is seeing someone else. So, that shows me how she really feels for me. Thanks for you guys inut on this.

Ex calls me when she is intoxicated and tells me she loves me. I don't know guys I think this is kinda weird. Weird b/c she dumped me and she was with her new boyfriend when she did it. I know alcohol lowers your inhibitions. However, I have always been told that the truth always comes out when your intoxicated. Maybe not. I really dont know b/c I have not really been around too many drunks in my life time. What do you guys think?

I agree with DN. I think she wants to hate me. A lot of sad things happened in our relationship. I wish I could tell you guys b/c it would shed some light on our situation. I just cant tell ya b/c it was a very private thing. Lets just say that many women go through what she went through and I think it was very emotional for her. She wanted to go through with it and after we broke up she told me she regretted it. Maybe this is why she hates me. But then I sometimes think she uses it as ammunition to make me feel bad. Life is tough and it sucks sometimes. Maybe time will heal all wounds.

Okay my ex broke up with me about a month ago. She is seeing another guy and I have tried to No contact her several times. However, she keeps sending me text messages asking me if I hate her etc. She says she is sad b/c she feels like she has lost her best friend. Then when I make contact she gets really angry and hateful telling me she wants me out of her life etc. Then she calls again or texts again with the same BS. It has just been a vicious cycle. I may need to change my phone number. All of this is just crazy and she has made me pretty much not want to be with her again. I am just sad that she is acting like this. It is like she has moved on but does not want to let go. Anybody ever experienced any thing like this before? I sure have not. She does not want to get back together, but she is starting to cause me mental aggravation. I know I do not need to pick up the phone again. Or respond to her text messages. Just tell me what is this fruit cake trying to do? I really think she is just mad that I really dont want to be her friend. I mean she broke up with me she got what she wanted so she needs to move on. A very werid situation if you ask me. Thank