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theres a girl who i'm pretty sure likes me and i want to ask out. the thing is i'm really confident, until i go to ask her and i bottle it. i get worried she'll say no. any tips? where should i ask her/how/when etc.

i think you were very strong to stay with your son. keep up this strong front in front of him, dont let him see that its getting to you. it really is a terrible thing that happened, and he may never forget it. talk to him in an adult manner about it, praise him for not doing the things and let him know that he did well. it sounds strange, and it is just my opinion, but i wouldn't try to avoid talking about it with him. if there is a problem he could be bottling it up, so its best he lets it out to you. if this doesnt work, try a psychologist or counselling. but explain to your son that he can trust the psychologist if you go through with it. he may get a bit weary in the presense of strangers. try talking to him yourself first. as for the school, i'd say you definitely have a case. good luck with it. let us know how it goes, hope for the best

good luck. just be yourself and ask natural questions. ps. whereabouts are you? hope it doesnt sound rude, i know someone called danielle who's interested in someone secretly. just roughly where in the world are you?

i'll keep u posted. she want in school today so it's been postponed

i'm back to school tomorrow, going to ask a girl out. any final tips? i'm fairly shy

yeah i'll keep you posted as to whats happening. thanks for the advice, and any more would be appreciated.

theres a girl i really like in my year at school. i never really thought she liked me the same way until a couple of weeks back. see, she laughs at my jokes sometimes and i know one of her friends has told her she likes me (as a friend) and thinks im really funny, but the one i like just smiled, looked at me and looked away smiling. in the past few weeks though shes seemed to like me more and been ore happy to see me and talk. i changed my mind too when during a school play at the interval i was stood behind her and she was sat talking to her friend (who i didnt know). as she was talking, she smiled at me as i stood behind her, and i smiled back. she was talking, so i didnt get chence to say anything to her. after the play had all finished, though, i was stood in the foyer and she was talking to a group of her friends. she stopped and smiled at me again, as if she was going to say something to me. again i smiled back, but there was a big crowd and i was pushed back. i havent seen her since because its been easter, but she seemed pretty happy to see me there. we're back at school on monday. what should i do? any tips?