fan4nascar

I've thought about depression. I asked him to go and get a "check up". He doesn't want to be bothered. I Would LOVE to go back to work, help out with the money, and get out of the house I really love my job. The reason I don't is because I dont trust my husband to take care of my son (2 y/o) I fear Dad will fall asleep on the couch while my kid gets hurt or worse.

I put ASAP because I need the advice (sooner the better). I am at the point now where I really am debating asking him to leave. I dont believe he "feels" much to be honest. If I had to guess I'd say tired (only because of him coming home and sleeping all day/night). He is the type to shut down and not address any issues. I know he's not interested in being intimate with me, no matter how I approach it, nothing happens. I've gotten a babysitter so we could be alone, dressed sexy, come on to him etc...he just would rather sleep he says. I don't think he's having an affair. He comes home everyday at the same time, doesnt go out. No phone calls or anything like that. I am truly at a loss.

(sigh) I feel so bad for you and your son. Your husband sounds very selfish. I fear I too am heading to where you are today. Do you have the means to support yourself and son without moving? do you have other family around for emotional support? I dont really see how you could really be happy with this man again no matter what he did to make this up to you even if he did leave her.

Hi everyone, I'm new to this group. I really dont know where to begin. It's to the point now where I am really resenting my husband. We have been together 5years, have a son (2) and I am pregnant. I think my husband isn't so great. He is lazy,(by this I mean he comes home at 3 sleeps at 4 and occasionally wakes up for dinnner) he never helps me out physically (with laundry bathe the kid straighten up or even a hug, nor is he there for me emotionally. I swear I think he avoids being around me. not to mention we havent had sex in forever (months). It's really amazing Im even pregnant. I'm becoming angry and bitter. He hardly ever comes to bed he usually falls alseep on the couch, which I'm getting used to at this point. It used to hurt alot but not so much anymore. I guess is all about how much I can tolerate. I could go on forever. I gave up a nursing career to stay at home (per his request). We are on a tight budget, and the function of the house falls on me as well as raising the family. I cook (everyday), clean , laundry, and basically at this point I feel I am a single parent I love him (dont ask me why perhaps a memory of the man he was, and promised to be) and really want to fix things. I try to bring this up and he gets angry and leaves the room. any suggestions?